From my wife’s perspective she did it all on her own first
She had the night to herself with her clit sucker and she gushed multiple times
Now she can squirt if she is just using her wand and especially if I I’m fingering her on the gspot at the same time
Also could try it standing up. I grab her bum, she bends over with her wand on clit and I finger her till she explodes
My female partner had tried for a decade to squirt, tried everything that was mentioned online, and none of it worked, but we then bought a Womanizer (not to squirt, but because of the great reviews) and within 30 seconds of using the Womanizer she said “I feel like I need to pee” and I said 'THAT COULD BE YOU ABOUT TO SQUIRT, DON’T STOP!" so she carried on, said “oh god” and literally squirted straight for 10 seconds!
For her, it didn’t feel like an orgasm, it felt like a release/needing to pee, she said it feels good but is not a full orgasm (useful to know) but yeah the ONLY way that she squirts is from using a Womanizer on her clit, nothing else needed, does the trick everytime 
Maybe more solo practice might help, it can all get too much, too much happening at once.
Never thought of standing! Will definitely try.
I have heard/read about the womaniser, there definitely must be something about it.
I will take a look at those, i have various toys, some people swear by a wand, which I have and its extremely powerful but so far no squirting.
Yes solo play is a must
Get comfortable with the clit sucker. You need lube so it forms a nice seal around your clit
Or try on your knees whilst on the bed
Maybe a certain position will help you squirt
Start with a toy you like the most. And the use the clit sucker
We have used several wands over the years, we love them, it’s my partners favourite type of sex toy, but she has never (even in sex or with a dildo while using a wand) squirted while using a wand, maybe that’s unique to her but for her it’s only ever been using a suction sex toy (like a Womanizer) on her clit that makes her squirt, and it does the job in less than a minute every time! But then she moves onto a different toy to start having orgasms, the mystery of squirting! 
So focus on the outside and not worry (well initially) about gspot.
I have a sucker but maybe a more powerful would be better.
Really im just a bit competitive I will do this 
If you already have a suction sex toy maybe try using that again and purposely trying to nudge yourself towards that feeling of needing to pee, as that seems to be key to then nudging yourself even further to squirting!
I don’t think g spot is a must from our experience.
Depends if you cum more easily from gspot or clit
If clit then cum first using vibrator/wand and then try the clit sucker.
What other toys do you own?
A vibrator inside and clit sucker/wand is also really effective
My OH gushes more rather than squirt
Also make sure you are fully hydrated
My wife has only squirted twice (that we’ve noted) and neither time were we trying for it. Can be a bit of a Catch-22 for sure between the idea that you can definitely learn via practice and direct techniques but also don’t focus on trying or it definitely won’t happen…
Anyway - the first time it happened was the end of a long play session that had involved bondage and oral for her (receiving) for two orgasms already. For the third was a slow build with edging and teasing with the Womanizer on her clit and our biggest dildo inside. Some combination of the edging, the exhaustion of #3, the aggressive clitoral stimulation (at the end I cranked the Womanizer to full power and didn’t release it), and the vaginal fullness burst the damn. Soaked through the duvet, comforter, and sheets.
The second time was very emotionally charged but was just her receiving oral with some minor edging and fingers gently on her g spot. It was more if a gush, but it was a bigger wet spot than would be in the normal range for us and she identified it as a squirt.
She was rather unimpressed by the first (actually, slightly embarrassed - I assured her it, and she, was sexy - then irritated at the laundry) and the second wasn’t a hassle, so she was pretty neutral.
All in all, not something we’ve tried for intentionally, but I’d be all for it happening more, but that’s mostly a me ego thing.
Lots of good info and hints and tips here, so good luck with your squirty Odyssey!
Yes I need to get out of my own head, I think I want to try/make it happen so bad it’s stalling things.
I think I will just see how things go rather than aiming for a result, I know I get the sensations so maybe one day it will happen unexpectedly 
Any luck?
None yet 
This happened to me for the first time last Sunday with the toy my lover (who is my ex-husband) gave me. He had given me a suction and vaginal vibrator the day before (perhaps thinking I wasn’t having any sex: slight_smile:), so I decided to try it since the children were with him. And oh my god, I had four orgasms in a row, and as the fifth orgasm was building, I soaked the sofa, and there was fluid everywhere. I was so embarrassed at first; I thought I had peed, and then I realized I had squirted!!! I took a picture to immortalize this first time for me and sent it to my ex-husband! (Which, by the way, excited him, and he asked me if I could do it again in the future and if there was a possibility that I could show him during a masturbation session, something that might excite me to see him hard while watching me experience pleasure).
Would love to try & get my wife to squirt, as she never has
Hi Holly, never had my wife squirt at all, but would certainly love to know how
Sounds good
You maybe trying to hard to squirt, you have to get to the point your partner you trust enough to do so, and totally accepts it can get messy. RELAX your hip muscles and enjoy the sensation, if your orgasm comes from your G spot internally, then add some light pressure to the bottom of your bladder, nothing heavy and just relax as you orgasm and it will come out.
It is up to you if you want it to come out quicker by bearing down this is not seen as a bad thing. How much do you want to squirt across the other side of the room? Some partners find it exciting to make a woman orgasm.
But don’t feel you need to Wee, because yes it does feel like it, but at this point you should be relaxing and letting it happen.
I hope that helps. It will take a while for your brain to rewire from Wee to Orgasm.
Hi, where do you find a splash blanket ?
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