Well you must be doing something right my husband has tried everything.
I’m sure it will happen for you. Try and take away all distractions and be relaxed
My wife believes squirting is just pee. I’ve read enough to know that it is a real thing. It’s like the poor females that don’t orgasm and don’t know what they are missing.
I believe when it happens it will blow her mind and she will want it every time we have sex.
As we got older and found toys, we’ve found they help both of us have more powerful orgasms. If there is a toy to help her squirt, I’m going to buy two.
Definitely not pee. For me, once I orgasm, keep the stimulation going and my 2nd orgasm will generally come with a side of squirt.
(Edited for spelling)
For those who’ve squirted before, I’d love to know how it’s impacted your sex life - for better or for worse. I’ve tried to add a section in the main post but don’t have the option of the little pencil.
@Holly Hi i can’t answer your question as I have never squirted. However i felt i have nearly but nothing ever happens
You should have the option, the ability to edit wikis is for everyone. @Lovehoney_Brenna have the trust levels changed?
In the meantime @Holly, you can comment what you wanted to add and where it should be placed and someone can add it for you. Otherwise when Brenna is back she can look into it for you.
Hi JoCat, I only have a little pencil icon for my own comment so can edit that but not the main thread. Perhaps this is something @Lovehoney_Brenna can help with.
I’d love to add the question: How has squirting impacted your sex life? And it would fit at the end of the post (after protecting the bed). Thanks.
You need to be Trust Level 1 to edit Wiki posts. Luckily this is the easiest Trust Level to get and can be achived in a day or so by interacting with forum posts!
Thanks for the tip, Brenna.
I have replied to another post on the subject but wanted to ask here too, ladies do you push or bare down when u get the sensation?
I have had a number of times the im going to wet myself sensation, how inconvenient in the middle of sex type thing so naturally i hold as tight as i can so not to, but should i be pushing? I tried to relax but nothing comes out, so now im wondering is this why i am going wrong?
Just relax and do not try to hold anything in , if a little bit of pee comes out so what , you have to be relaxed at all times , the way i find gets her squirting 90% of the time is stimulate the Gspot and a wand on the clitoris and be prepared it can get messy , lovely !!!
Sometimes I just let it gush, other times I do bear down as it feels good to gush even more we invested in a splash blanket so I can relax and let go.
I cannot add more on the topic as all the important information has been relayed, all I will add is practice, practice, practice.
Thanks for opening up this discussion (wiki) as it’s been an adventure of mine to achieve and luckily have achieved successfully with my other half. It is now a skill I will keep practicing but I’ve now set my targets to the A spot orgasm, I do not see it’s been mentioned before if at all.
Is it of interest!
At first I was a bit ashamed or embarrassed because I didn’t understand at that time what I just done, however I have definitely come a long way since then and embrace it. I don’t know anybody else personally that squirts, however, I AM gung-ho about having a hot AF squirt session with at least 1 other ! Def in the top 5 on my fuck it list edited by mod.
I added this to the original Wiki Guide content, but here is a reply to your comment. The info shown explains the squirt mechanism, and it explains the technique.
Explanation of Squirting Mechanism:
Stimulation of the G-Spot can produce arousal that leads to squirting. Squirting is the rapid flow of the female ejaculate out of the urethra. This is not urination, but it may give the woman the sensation that she is going to urinate before it happens. The fluid is stored in the urethral sponge. It is in a region that surrounds that surrounds the bladder. The female ejaculate fluid comes from the urethral sponge. There are paraurethral glands and ducts that run between the urethral sponge and the urethra. When arousal occurs, the glands within the urethral sponge fill with fluid, causing the sponge to swell. Sometimes that fluid is released through the paraurethral ducts into the urethra. This is squirting.
The G-Spot needs firm pressure. In order to find the G-Spot, initial arousal is necessary. This swells the G-Spot, and the G-Spot can be located about 1 to 2 inches by inserting 2 fingers and using a “come here” motion. Once the spot is located, deliberate, direct pressure is used, building the intensity. Many women find that pressing just above the pubic bone while stimulating the G-Spot internally is needed. Since pressure is being put on the sponge, it produces a feeling that she is about the urinate.
Hubby loves making me squirt, he is definitely into cum play and once I squirt he gets more and more into it.
He has even suggested playing with an ejaculating dildo so I can be covered in “cum” other than my own before he finishes.
I love the feeling, and I love how keen he gets so it’s a solid winner here.
We put towels down but a sex blanket is on the christmas list to help keep things tidier for afterwards.