Having spent my whole life wearing Bridget Jones style comfortable high waisted, big arsed underwear I’ve never once shown interest in trying thongs, g-strings or anything without coverage.
My husband has expressed his interest in me switching my stretchy cottons for something sexier (thongs).
I’ve since ordered and received several sets of silky, Lacey, and cotton thongs and I’m just wondering how people wear them comfortably as I permanently feel like I have a wedgie!
Also, is it normal to feel suddenly sexy whilst wearing this type of stuff ?
I have a feeling the thongs will be kept specifically for days off from work but would like to be able to get used to wearing them for him.
I applaud you for trying thongs etc. My wife was always a briefs lady but when she reached around 50 all were thrown away and replayed by much bigger underwear. I would love her to return to smaller types even for high days etc. Try and stick with them @FortySomethingWife I also think they make a very sexy site and hopefully you will also feel good in them.
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For me personally I actually switch to thongs for comfort.
It started as me trying to see if I like them on the weekends or evenings After doing it for a couple weekends I noticed I stopped feeling the wedgie.
I started to notice they were becoming comfortable supportive and they make me feel a little sexy.
Now I wear them without exception I have no other type of underwear.
So my suggestion would be to give them a fair chance the wedgie feeling is bad at 1st but for me personally it went away very quickly.
I like my big knickers, when the sexual partner is here then I do dress for him but usually what I’m wearing has underwear included. I don’t live with him but I’d still wear my big knickers if I did.
Is your husband doing something fun for you as well?
You saying you’re not going to be out underweared by someone else is a tad concerning. I hope you don’t feel like you have to do this to keep him happy, from the sounds of it he should be worshipping you for what you do for him! I hope he is x
If i was you, i’d wear whatever is comfortable on a daily basis. If you find thongs etc uncomfortable, save them for the bedroom or if you know you’re having sex.
Personally if the label in a t-shirt irritates me, i cut it out, and wouldn’t dream of wearing something uncomfortable on a daily basis just to please someone, neither would i expect someone to do the same for me.
But don’t you realise that the models and porn stars probably wear big comfy knickers when they’re not working?
You are trying to compete with a fantasy ideal. You are a real human being.
I know all men are not the same but for me I wouldn’t want it to be an every day thing as it normalises it I love seeing my OH in thongs and yes I would like to see it more but the way it drives me wild when she does wear them would probably lessen if it was an every day thing.
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My wife calls them cheese cutters, as she prefers your usual style lol, but I’ve got her lacey boy shorts / briefs she quite likes
My step daughter often says she has a front wedgey
There are comfy thongs you can buy at that well know primarny…
You just have to find the thong/gstring style that suits your body. My wife was a big pants wearer but over the last year had started to wear thongs/gstrings more regularly. After multiple purchases she found the thongs with a thick lace band around the hips and thin string back the most comfortable as it does not dig into her sides. She also likes the gstrings that are like a t back(no triangle at the back) as they do not wedge up her backside. She also buys one size up than her big pants.
