Things you wish you could do

Sex Tips & Talk
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Is there something you’re not able to do sexually that you wish you could? Whether that’s due to your own limitations, partner’s limitations or boundaries etc. I’ll also accept answers on what you wish your partner would / was able to do.

If you could change one thing what would it be, and why? It could be anything. Here are some examples:

  • Make your partner squirt
  • Deepthroat
  • Have an open relationship
  • Have a threesome
  • Last longer in bed
  • Grow an extra couple of inches
  • Enjoy or be able to perform a specific sexual act
  • Swing
  • Give yourself oral
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I think alot of people would love to give themselves oral lol Can you imagine the conversation.

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This is so true! ….just never been that flexible :rofl:

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This is all Catch 22 for us, because although I would dearly love to know how a threesome and/or group sex feels, including bicurious experiments, we are long-married and entirely devoted to each other, so involving other people is out of the question.

So I guess I will just go with wishing my wife was better at talking dirty.

Oh, and being able to give myself oral, obviously. :wink:

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Give myself oral, like others here, but I’m single and solo (which is fine by me) and though I enjoy toys I’d like to be able to rim myself and have anal sex with myself :stuck_out_tongue:

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I wish my wife was receptive to me performing oral on her and we could introduce toys into our sexual life…That’s just a couple of the kinks I wish I could change

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We’ve experimented and done so much new in the last few years that there is very little left. The only thing left for me is to experience a real penis coming in my mouth and my ass.

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Yes, it is boring… but also, total goals haha

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Lying here thinking about it on my lunch break is genuinely what made me think of the question ahaha

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Apparently it’s partly a flexibility thing, but also a ‘size’ thing. And if you don’t have both then it’s close but no cigar, as they say.

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Marriage doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t have a threesome (of course unless the other person is unwilling).
Have you spoken to them about it? :man_shrugging:t2:

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Rimming yourself is another subject altogether. Never thought of that one hahahah!

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(Random anonymous poll within the thread)
If you could perform oral on yourself, would you?

  • Yes - but only my genitals
  • Yes - I would also rim myself
  • Of course - I’d even do it to myself whilst receiving oral from someone else
  • Unsure, but I’d try it
  • Absolutely not
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I’d like to have a partner and be able to explore many things but I’ve also been curious and wanted to fist someone :sweat_smile:

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Oh wow, going right in the deep end!
(Pun intended.)

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Persuade my wife to peg me and also allow me to explore my bi side, both solo and together

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Wife and I have a great sex life, explore and open to many different activities. That said, my wife is set against any swinging or three some. I wish I could perform oral on my wife while she is with another man PIV and cleaning them both up after.

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I wish I could relax more to enjoy anal, because I do love how it feels. I know everything that anyone could possibly say to help, but it doesn’t stop me from stressing and overthinking it.

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The ability to swallow cum

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I wish I could vaginally penetrate my female partners with my own sensitive parts. But being born female and only having a swollen 2 inches, it doesn’t really happen.

I also wish I could ejaculate enough to be rid of all the cream and other stuff so I don’t have to do it anymore. Its tiresome having to plan for the mess when I wanna cum.

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