What puts you off
It’s not that simple for us, and quite hard to explain. Neither of us have ever had sex with anybody else, and our total commitment to each other might seem old-fashioned and even silly, but it’s the biggest part of the buzz between us, which has so far lasted for 36 years. So even if we had a threesome to achieve something that was impossible between the two of us, it would feel like being - very old-fashioned (and quite inadequate) word coming up - unfaithful. I know a threesome would work for a lot of couples, but not us.
Haha I take no prisoners!
Swinging or swapping of any kind is out of the question for us too, but a few years ago we discovered that it doesn’t stop you going along to swinging clubs. When you are there, nobody checks to make sure you are actually swinging, so you are free to enjoy the amazing atmosphere, watch live sex for free and (if you are brave enough) be watched, which is a real thrill. It also felt really naughty, provides some lovely memories, and there are extra (sometimes unexpected) pleasures from being so near to the action, but not swapping.
For me I gave tried so many times but it’s the texture of the cum in my mouth - the taste is not good but ok - just the texture- makes me gag
The only things if wish I could do is
Give my hubby more blowjobs (because I don’t like to taste of cum)
Be able to orgasm through PIV more often (only really happened a few times in the 30 years we have been together)
And possibly be able to squirt more, especially when we are during a mutual session (again only ever happened twice I think in all the years, this was through my hubby fingering and rubbing my clit quite roughly, which I really enjoyed but did make me a bit sore lol but I know it’s something you ever can do or not do
I can’t think of anything but will show this post to my husband when he gets home and have a discussion.
Over the last few years our sex adventures have gone into overdrive and not always because we were looking for these adventures. However we are alway open to try new things.
I wish I could experience the sensation that my wife has during an orgasm. I would want to be a female for one day in order to experience her feelings and sensations involving foreplay, sex, orgasm, MULTIPLE!!! It would be informative and fun… At least I think so
@arencook Have you ever had a prostate massage or a prostate orgasm? I would say this is pretty close to experiencing what a woman who has multiple orgasms feels. First the act of being penetrated, then if you can achieve Prostate orgasms they come in waves. Its pretty incredible.
So if you don’t like the taste, texture and makes you gag, then Why do you want to be able to swallow cum??? Please tell???
@southernstar
I want to do it to give my husband the pleasure of being able to mouth fuck me
Why not let him mouth F…k you and as he is about to shoot his cum pull out of your mouth
I think I would like to try a lifestyle similar to what @rockstar describes albeit with a few changes. Everything else I think is all good.
I wish I could deep throat I tried practicing but my gag reflex is too much… A threesome is a huge fantasy of mine, but I don’t want to do it in real life so will continue simulating it with an added dildo
Cool…so you love feeling his dick sliding in and out of your mouth?? Can you take all his dick in your mouth??? Does he cum in your mouth everytime?
@southernstar
My husband is a big boy over 9 inch - but I’m able to take the majority of his manhood - but it’s a big no no to shooting his cum in my mouth - just not my thing
Over 9"…wow…Are you bragging or complaining ??? LOL
I can do 1 of these let you decide
I’m sure this is pretty mild for most, but I’d love for my wife and I to be naked and my wife be sat behind me and give me a reach around to the point where I cum on myself. She gave me a HJ yesterday (for the first time in decades) where I came on my chest and belly and this fantasy has been all I could think about for the last 24 hours!
@teacake self fellatio is every guys dream in their teens eh!
Even at that age I wasn’t flexible enough or well endowed enough to be anywhere near it.
As an adult the closest I could get was the old trick of propping myself up against a wall or furniture and aiming myself at my face and ejaculating into my face and sometimes my mouth.
Most of the time I chickened out at the point of climax and splashed it down my chest, an amazing arousing process tho