I used to be able to suck myself, probably only the first 3 or so inches though. to be honest I only did it maybe 4-5 times, mainly for partners, as it’s nowhere near as good as having someone else suck it lol
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Would love to last longer, i could then make the most of a threesome.
From the top… 1,3,4,6,7,8,9 The threesome or moresome would be just to say weve been there done that…that was fun.
Im probably your average guy in length, maybe a bit above in girth, so i reckon
1 & 1/2" extra would help proportions.
Swallowing cum, a bit like @batjamboree , MrsIwill not in to it. I’d just like relax and cum when she is giving a BJ, the way she does when im reciprocating.
Swinging seems like good fun in principal, the swingers we have come across on holiday, seem like a fun friendly bunch as engaged us in general chat, so id love to join in.
Self oral ties in with the extra inch or two. You know for the times you are on your own and nothing on TV.
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@Iwill - you are a very naughty boy
With regards to drinking your own cum just ask your wife to assist - bring you up to climax and get you to shoot into a large syringe- then squeeze the final bits out of your shaft - put the plunger in and squeeze it into your mouth - nice and warm
Another way I do is when he cums in my knickers - I get my husband to lick them clean 
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@batjamboree …i should feel very embarrassed saying this…providing self oral would stop short at cuming in mouth… i know that is double standards as id love my wife to let me cum in her mouth.
Im happy for her to cum or squirt all over my mouth and face.
I can understand your view , due to texture . Im more than happy for my wife give a BJ and then cum on her boobs or where ever.
But you are correct, i can be verrrry naughty, given the chance.!!!
Like your hub, i just love the scent of worn knickers…it must be a primeval thing?
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Stop my wife’s pain , then sexual play would come back to our lives .
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Samantha here.
I put on a few extra pounds after child birth that i have struggled to shift which means im not able to do some positions anymore.
I would like to experience a mmf threesome and dp but my partner isnt likely to agree. Which is totally fine as i dont think i could share him with a another woman either
@ben85 … Samantha…what about a fully interactive FFM where you wouldnt be left out and in the middle of everything with him and her ( would getting it on with another female be something you’d consider ?)…if he agreed to a MMF , to satisfy your desire.
I like your list as a starting point and certainly a fun exercise to reflect on -
- Make your partner squirt - Made my wife squirt one time. I thought it was very sexy, she was a little embarrassed about it (or miffed that we were on top of the covers at the time and she soaked the duvet, comforter, all sheets, and mattress pad) and she said while the orgasm was explosive, it certainly wasn’t improved by the squirt: it was the 3rd of the day after extensive edging and bondage until driving her Womanizer full-speed ahead. She’s had equally explosive O’s before and after, but that one remains memorable. I would be thrilled if it happened more often, but it’s not something I’m going to try to “achieve” or request of her.
- Deepthroat - Not interested for myself, but wife can take me deep in her throat for a good while. I’m a really hard cum from oral, so again not something I would push for, but I suppose if we got all the buildup taken care of elsewise I’d be curious about sliding in and cumming during a brief deepthroating.
- Have an open relationship - That’s a no for me, dawg. Fun to fantasize, but I know myself and I know my wife and we’re very manogamous by choice.
- Have a threesome - Another no here. Again, fun fantasy that we dirty-talk up all over the place, but not interested in trying to navigate the logistics of setting it up or the likely consequences/fallout even in best case scenario.
- Last longer in bed - Only if it’s a matter of choice/total control over my orgasm. I’m more likely to not cum after too long than I am to cum dramatically early.
- Grow an extra couple of inches - I’d be interested in gaining an inch at my max, and maybe a half inch in girth. I know from our experimentation with dildos that there is a sweet spot for my wife, and an upper limit especially where vigorous thrusting can occur. I like that anal and DP is regularly on the table without trouble, so I’m at a point in my wife where I probably wouldn’t want to be much bigger. But given that I think my current functional erection can swing up to 1.5" length and probably .5" in girth (like, from a semi that can still penetrate, to “we’ve been edging for an hour with cockrings and toys and I’m about to burst”) I certainly would love to try out a magically expanding penis.
- Swing - Again with the not in reality. Same reasons above. Although my wife has noted that she thinks attending a swinger/sex club might be inside her boundaries if the situation was ever accessible, to watch or even possible play together and be a little exhibtiionary, but contact with others is currently a hard limit.
- Give yourself oral - If I were flexible enough I would certainly try. I’ve read from others who have been able to that it really was too confusing/distracting to be useful. But in a perfect world where I could move like Gumby I think it would probably be amazing to suck on my own cock while being pegged.
Here are a few more…
- I’m at an age where my erections are starting to ebb and flow a little more frequently than I’d like during our playtimes. We’re now mature enough that it doesn’t always stop us in our tracks, but I’d love to have total mental control over my plumbing to be hard on demand.
- Moving into more fantastical realms, I would love to body-swap with my wife for a day and know how things feel for her, and let her experience the same. I would like to experience multiple orgasms with her female refractory period: either to see how high I can go, or to better understand why she regularly (99% of the time) is satisfied with one-and-done.
- While we’re in a land of pure imagination, how fantastic would it be to multiply/clone yourself to create fully monogamous group situations (a la Dr. Manhattan in Watchmen)? In this scenario, if I duplicated myself to DP my wife, and both selves orgasm a the same time, do I experience it multiplied by two? Or are they separate experiences until I de-multiple and then they’re all in my brain at the same time? If one self cums, does the other cum too? Is there a shared refractory period, or totally independent? It would be very hot to just keep multiplying and run a train on my wife while she’s bound and blindfolded.
- Okay, back to reality: I would really love to create the space for some full days of play together, specifically pushing our limits of edging (could be either or both of us, but I’m definitely more interested in the power play there and holding the reins for her) and/or multiples (mostly her, logistically) and forced orgasms. Barriers to doing this now include still being in the season of young kids, so when we do have time to ourselves it’s a diminishing return to extend our play when we can get pretty worked up together, cum, and then want to move on to some other activity that we enjoy doing without the kids. Our last childfree weekend involved wake-up sex, a snowy run together, freshly showered sex, the art museum, an afternoon romp, dinner and theatre, and bedtime sex. So I think I fantasize about being in a season of life where taking a full day to linger in sensuous togetherness doesn’t feel like we’re missing out on other opportunities together.
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edited by mod post more revealing pictures on this forum.
I really wish I could try pegging. I’m a switch but naturally quite dominant so it’s always something I’ve been drawn towards. My partner is also a switch but doesn’t like receiving any kind of anal play whatsoever. I love them so very much, so it doesn’t matter to me but there’s definitely a part of me which would love to seem them bent over 
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Ah but there are plenty of other sites where you can see people (just not forum members, at least most likely not) 
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But for me, I think have more confidence in myself so I could go and try the things I want to try. Things like going to a sex club, being used, just letting go.
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