If you HAD to give up penetration or oral which one would it be?
No fudging (the answer can't be "I love them both so I can't decide").
I wonder this for a couple of recent things for me first being I came across a poll of women who had answered that 55% (of straight women) prefer penetration - which to me makes no sense - I'd think the answer would be highest for oral). There were lesbians who answered at only 20% of gay women prefering penetration whick makes more sense to me than the straight women's stats.
It doesn't seem to me this poll is accurate. I think it undercounts the number of women who prefer oral
And then second was a conversation I had with my X. We've been divorced since '08 but we're still friends. We saw each other a couple of months ago and somehow our conversation at some point went to our past sex lives together. It was really good (she agrees). But she told me she could have had more intercourse and less oral (wish she'd told me that while we were still married)
Now I will admit that even as a man I prefer giving oral to having intercourse (in other words I adore eating pussy -so we probably actually did have more oral (for her) than intercourse).
I had " been raised" to believe women prefer oral and there's never a thing as too much for a woman