Ready when I first read your post my gut instinct was ...."What choose...why can't I have both????"
But being pushed i would say give up oral but then I changed my mind...I think this is a toughie...
Oral, defiantly oral!!! I could not imagine not having both but I think I would ultimately miss penetration the most…
I have just had a 10 minute discussion with my husband about this and he agrees it is a tough choice.