Thoughts on tying up partner

@NewGirl73 hey introduce yourself

I love tying up hubby and teasing him, then climbing on him once he’s suitably wound up! But lately we’ve been exploring my sub side so roles are reversed and discovered we are both switch :+1:

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Yeah, all the way.

Love tying her up and teasing her etc before penetration. She isn’t to keen on anal or able to take my penis, so even popping a plug in etc is good fun.

She also is good for tying me up and having her way, but again only just starting to explore anal, I’d imagine if she was going to do anything to my bum she would probably tallk or be a bit hesitant etc

But yup, it’s great doing it and it’s great getting it. Chuck in an eye mask/blind fold for extra excitement

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It’s part of our dynamic. I actually feel empty if I haven’t been restrained and whipped for a while. Obviously everything we do is negotiated and communicated. The trust between us is rock solid and am happy for him to to this.
Please do your research before getting into any type of play like this. Go for something like the LH velcro cuffs and restraint systems before trying the likes of rope as you can do nerve damage if not doing it correctly. If you do go for rope, safety scissors and safe words should be considered also. The same goes if you go down the impact route.

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Hey, i am new to all of this.
Currently awaiting an order, to take our first step into this

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Nice to meet you. I am currently waiting for a order to. Was supposed to arrive Friday got email from them saying that shipping option wasent available even tho they charged me for it. 30 dollars and still gotta wait a week lol

Ouch lol, mine should be here today :wink:

My wife handcuffed my hands to my ankles last night dog bone gagged me(cant fit a ball in my small mouth) and had me kneeling face on the floor then "abused " my hole until I was spent she did release one hand so I could use some ā€œrelaxantsā€

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Yeah tell me about it lol. Hopefully you have fun with whatever you bought and you enjoy it.

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I did it once cuffed him to the bed, started playing with his balls and put them in my mouth, and then a bj, edging him. I then rode him until he cummed. We enjoyed it, but prefer me being the one who gets tied up or tied down. I love it, being cuffed, tied up with rope or using the underbed restraints or the harness. Totally being dominated by him, being teased by him, getting spanked and being punished before he penetrates me.

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Sounds hot to me lol. :grinning:

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@Dirty-Wife I’m thinking about letting my wife try it. Never done it before but she is more of a dominant but she’s is very feminine at the same time. It’s sexy as all getout In my mind. She loves being in control but she can’t control herself when she’s in the position like that.

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We did that this morning. We took turns: first I tied him up with red satin ropes and put a purple silk blindfold on him. Then I used a variety of toys on him. Then he did the same for me. It was his first time being bound, but I have been practicing bondage for many years.
I love the sensation of being in restraints, but I follow certain caveats:

  • restraints must be comfortable
  • always have a safe word
  • discuss the action beforehand
  • we stay away from metal restraints, especially handcuffs. Too great a chance of constriction injury.
  • respect each other’s boundaries .
    It can be great fun, and bondage doesn’t necessarily mean pain or disparaging language. It can be a very loving act, and can foster trust and a sense of security. Just be totally open with each other and maybe some magic will happen.
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We have the under bed restraints and absolutely love it. A must have in my opinion :smiley: As soon as I am tied I just get so horny its crazy and when I restrain my other half its amazing, preferably blindfold her to add to the excitement, love moving between nipples, clit and putting my cock in her mouth. Its all about the tease for me which always seems to lead to a big climax.

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We tried this for the first time the other night, don’t get me wrong it was enjoyable.
He was tied up in the underbed restraints, i am not very confident and certainly not very dominant, although i have periods where i think i am, so i had a drink beforehand to settle my nerves.
My advice go slow, don’t overthink things, and just be you, not a wannabe porn star!

Will certainly be doing it again, but without pressurising myself lol

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This…. :drooling_face::woozy_face::face_exhaling:

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I’m sure my wife would love to tie me up sometimes, but this has nothing to do with the bedroom, I have the knack of winding her up sometimes, some people also call this breathing lol.

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Nice pic @Blonde_Bunny

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One taste of that and id be hooked for. Lol. He’ll I’d love to let you yie me u

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During the first lockdown, when we were both goin a bit stir-crazy. We got quite into the whole tying upthing, with a satin black blindfold. I think that the best session we had (which was the OHs idea) was that I was to tie her wrists and ankles to each corner of our metal bedframe (not too tightly, but unable to wriggle free) and then put the blindfold on her. Aside from that she was completely naked. She then asked me to rolepaly phoning the plumber and sayig that we were finally ready to make the final payment on our new boilerwhich had been fitted about 3 days ago, and then go downstairs for about 20 minutes and leave her there.
Once I arrived back in the bedroom I have to admit that I was worried that she’d have been asleep after a busy day with the kids :see_no_evil: but thankfully she wasn’t.
I’d been told to NOT say a word at all, until after the sex, so I guessed that she was having a little moment about pretending that I was our plumber, and that she was ā€˜the final payment’.
I have to admit that she did rather enjoy the sex, but to be honest our plumber realy is nothing to look at!!! :rofl:

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