I love tying up hubby and teasing him, then climbing on him once heās suitably wound up! But lately weāve been exploring my sub side so roles are reversed and discovered we are both switch 
Yeah, all the way.
Love tying her up and teasing her etc before penetration. She isnāt to keen on anal or able to take my penis, so even popping a plug in etc is good fun.
She also is good for tying me up and having her way, but again only just starting to explore anal, Iād imagine if she was going to do anything to my bum she would probably tallk or be a bit hesitant etc
But yup, itās great doing it and itās great getting it. Chuck in an eye mask/blind fold for extra excitement
Itās part of our dynamic. I actually feel empty if I havenāt been restrained and whipped for a while. Obviously everything we do is negotiated and communicated. The trust between us is rock solid and am happy for him to to this.
Please do your research before getting into any type of play like this. Go for something like the LH velcro cuffs and restraint systems before trying the likes of rope as you can do nerve damage if not doing it correctly. If you do go for rope, safety scissors and safe words should be considered also. The same goes if you go down the impact route.
Hey, i am new to all of this.
Currently awaiting an order, to take our first step into this
Nice to meet you. I am currently waiting for a order to. Was supposed to arrive Friday got email from them saying that shipping option wasent available even tho they charged me for it. 30 dollars and still gotta wait a week lol
Ouch lol, mine should be here today 
My wife handcuffed my hands to my ankles last night dog bone gagged me(cant fit a ball in my small mouth) and had me kneeling face on the floor then "abused " my hole until I was spent she did release one hand so I could use some ārelaxantsā
Yeah tell me about it lol. Hopefully you have fun with whatever you bought and you enjoy it.
I did it once cuffed him to the bed, started playing with his balls and put them in my mouth, and then a bj, edging him. I then rode him until he cummed. We enjoyed it, but prefer me being the one who gets tied up or tied down. I love it, being cuffed, tied up with rope or using the underbed restraints or the harness. Totally being dominated by him, being teased by him, getting spanked and being punished before he penetrates me.
Sounds hot to me lol. 
@Dirty-Wife Iām thinking about letting my wife try it. Never done it before but she is more of a dominant but sheās is very feminine at the same time. Itās sexy as all getout In my mind. She loves being in control but she canāt control herself when sheās in the position like that.
We did that this morning. We took turns: first I tied him up with red satin ropes and put a purple silk blindfold on him. Then I used a variety of toys on him. Then he did the same for me. It was his first time being bound, but I have been practicing bondage for many years.
I love the sensation of being in restraints, but I follow certain caveats:
- restraints must be comfortable
- always have a safe word
- discuss the action beforehand
- we stay away from metal restraints, especially handcuffs. Too great a chance of constriction injury.
- respect each otherās boundaries .
It can be great fun, and bondage doesnāt necessarily mean pain or disparaging language. It can be a very loving act, and can foster trust and a sense of security. Just be totally open with each other and maybe some magic will happen.
We have the under bed restraints and absolutely love it. A must have in my opinion 
As soon as I am tied I just get so horny its crazy and when I restrain my other half its amazing, preferably blindfold her to add to the excitement, love moving between nipples, clit and putting my cock in her mouth. Its all about the tease for me which always seems to lead to a big climax.
We tried this for the first time the other night, donāt get me wrong it was enjoyable.
He was tied up in the underbed restraints, i am not very confident and certainly not very dominant, although i have periods where i think i am, so i had a drink beforehand to settle my nerves.
My advice go slow, donāt overthink things, and just be you, not a wannabe porn star!
Will certainly be doing it again, but without pressurising myself lol
Iām sure my wife would love to tie me up sometimes, but this has nothing to do with the bedroom, I have the knack of winding her up sometimes, some people also call this breathing lol.
One taste of that and id be hooked for. Lol. Heāll Iād love to let you yie me u