@KentCouple1990 very much the same here . Nice to have fantasies any way…
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@KentCouple1990 My wife really gets off on the total control that she has. She says that the role reversal is very arousing. Perhaps you can have this sort of conversation with your wife.
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I’m in exactly the same position as you, so to speak. I’d love to be pegged but the OH just isn’t interested 
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We discussed that exact aspect. She likes to dominate me but just doesn’t feel she would get that with pegging. Maybe one day 
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GF pegged for first time in years about 2 months ago. I loved it. She made me cum hands free. She was really going for it. We put a bullet vibe in the dildo pants. After I collapsed on the bed from nearly passing out. We laid down to recover. She admitted that she had come as well. I was well chuffed. We have not done it since but i think about it every day. I’m gonna ask her again soon. She said it’s not really her thing. God it felt good.
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GF just pegged me again about half an hour ago. Was really really good. Came hands free. She really got her hips into it taking me from behind. Don’t think I could do it too often as it’s So intense. Think she is over the stigma side of it now and realises the pleasure it brings to me. I feel real lucky that she has come round to it.
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Intense really is the word.
She won’t let me come when she’s pegging me but I’m still emotionally exhausted afterwards.
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We love pegging. Need to be in the right frame of mind as OH is usually submissive. But we like to chop and change
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Sounds amazing so happy for you both congratulations.
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If in doubt, peg (or be pegged). Sexterminatrix and I have done some awesome stuff in our time, but pegging is one of our favourite activities by far.
From the female side, for me, the answer is always “peg”. I’ve been lucky to find a harness that holds the dildo in a position that really rubs my clit with every stroke.
So, for us, a pegging session starts out with me thrusting on the dildo and having a big extended rolling orgasm. In effect, I’m using his asshole to give me a huge orgasm. But, if I stopped thrusting, it would be rude, so I have to overcome my desire to just stop and be overwhelmed by the orgasm. I have to continue and eventually, I stop cumming and can then really focus on the penetration and giving him an orgasm.
He can really last. His ass is greedy and it takes a lot (both in size and number of thrusts). But when he gets there, it is spectacular.
Because my body is crap some of the time, I often don’t have the stamina to finish the job. It is one of the reasons I like double teaming him with another strap-on wielding female.
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Hi, sounds great, do you orgasm from the cliteral stimulation alone or is there something else. Is it the experience that gets you there as well like seeing his reaction to your power?
Peg! Though pegging was never about power for me, it was about giving pleasure in a different way.
I never liked doing it from behind, I liked to watch their face, then I would control my movements based on their reaction.
My preference was to be sensual, hard and fast was not my thing as that felt more dominant. Slow and deep was more my style. I wouldn’t do it with a partner who wanted his ass ‘ruined’ because our styles would be different. Bear in mind these were fwbs and I chose them based on our sexual compatibility as much as our personality compatibility. At the same time the saying ‘different strokes for different folks’, in a very literal sense, was always a part of it.
My current partner isn’t in to pegging, thats ok, I give him pleasure in the ways he does want it.
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As the reciever i like a mixture of styles.
If im on top and in control i start with long slow movements and gradually iincrease the speed but its never violent or aggressive .
In missionary when she’s in control she does much the same.
In doggy i subsume all control to her and i want to be pounded hard and deep.
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Amazing share thxs great to hear the other side and so inspired!
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A few months ago I bought a strapless double dildo, but chickened out of asking the wife to try out pegging. We’ve since used it just on her, but recently she’s made couple of comments playfully saying ‘interesting shape’ - I acted coy at the time but will pluck up the courage to ask if she’d like to try pegging me. I think I’ll go for approach of telling her how much it would turn me on and wanting to experience more intense orgasm, and take it from there.
It’s inspiring to read of experience of others who’ve managed to bring this up with their partner with successful results. For me it’s still just a fantasy but definitely feel I’m getting closer to asking her.
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I’ve thought about the pegging idea and I like the sound of the idea. The other night the wife was playing with me and she suggested the small but plug so I agreed and she was enjoying it moving it about and back and forth and it felt good but needed to be slightly bigger so I suggested her vibrating dildo to which she was a bit surprised by but she went with it. It’s 5.5 inch long and I took it all but I felt full lol it was a pleasure pain kind of feeling and it got me moaning lol. When I orgasmed it was very intense but now I’m thinking may be pegging isn’t for me as I felt like I couldn’t relax 100%.
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Don’t judge anal penetration on your first experience.it’s bound to feel strange the first time and, unless you were well prepared for it, a little painful too.
Stick with it and you will find a world of pleasure and possibly a whole new sexual dynamic with your wife in a more dominant role.
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@Alurkingnewbie
Sounds like she is thinking about it as well. I would not be surprised if she is thinking of asking you. It’s a tricky one to bring up. My GF gets well into it, I thinks she enjoys the pleasure it gives me. She gets off on that.
I think the more we do it the more confident she will get. Knowing there will be no mess is a big confidence boost. If there was I think she would backtrack and not be up for it for a while. Prep is key for us.
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Absolutely. Although they say it’s not strictly necessary, I always “prep” before Sexterminatrix and I engage in a session, performing ablutions and then using an anal douche to make sure it’s as clean as it can be when she pegs me. It’s still going to be a messy process, though, because of the amount of lube used, etc. but with a towel placed underneath or using sports-sheets, cleanup afterwards is never an issue (which I deal with anyway because I made it lol). Or you could do shower sex and let any residual mess go down the drain.
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