Just interested in people’s thoughts I am thinking about going topless when me and my husband go on holiday. I am unsure if he will be sexually aroused by this what do people think. Think it would spice things up on the beach
I think its a great idea and a show of confidence which is attractive in its self. I try to get my missus to go topless but she reluctant to do so. Your husband will get aroused because i know i do , even if i catch a glimpse of her nipples while shes changing on the beach or round a pool. Also i get turned on of the thought of men looking at her boobs .
It depends. Are yougoing to Skegness or Santorini? Why not ask him when you get there. Good luck
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The OH has gone topless on the beach only once, looked amazing, but wasn't happy and got sunburnt in a sensitive area.
I have been on holiday with partners who were topless and being topless was the norm. At first yes felt excited but then it becomes normal to see semi naked women. It is more about enjoying where you are, the surroundings, the clear Sea, clouds and sun that attract you.
I would ask him, but ina round about way.
I was thinking I might go topless on the beach this year, what do you think?
This way if he is worried he can say so, also if he likes the idea then maybe he could rub suncream on your chest before you leave the room for the beach.
Just make sure you use plenty or sun cream. Those areas can be very sensitive to the sun. Yes I'm sure hubby will be turned on also people will take a cheeky look but on the whole after a while it will feel normal and you will be comfortable. We visit naturist beaches and it is a lovely free feeling. Good luck xx💋
Thanks for the advice I am going to think more about it. Problem is I have extremely large breasts and don’t know how I will feel having other people see them. My husband has asked me to do it many times but I am still unsure. I like the idea but need to think more about it
if you happy to go with the flow with everyone else topless then give it a try. if you get self conscious it can be a good idea to roll over and tan your back instead. People come in all shapes n sizes, be proud of your assets!
Yes indeed there are all shapes and sizes and no one is there to judge. Enjoy yourselves. We would love to hear how you get on xx
Don't worry about what anyone else thinks (including your partner)do what you feel comfortable with. Enjoy the freedom and feel the sun.
BustyXL wrote:
Thanks for the advice I am going to think more about it. Problem is I have extremely large breasts and don’t know how I will feel having other people see them. My husband has asked me to do it many times but I am still unsure. I like the idea but need to think more about it
I've found going topless with large breasts to be great fun. Sure, plenty of people look, but I've always found it pleasant rather than creepy, and my husband always feels a little smug being there with me, as he gets to go home and play with them.
It is nerve-wracking at first, but you very soon realise that, quite frankly, people are by and large more interested in their ice creams!
I'd say go for it, there's nothing better than the feel of the sun on bare skin. If you feel like too many people are looking or you feel self concious then you can always cover up again.
If you want to try it , go for it . One thing to remember is that topless beaches or nudist camp it is 100% normal . Other than extremely young men , 99.9% will not get arroused . I was concerned for myself , the first time I went to a nudist camp . No worries .
Echo all the other posts here.If your happy to try it go for it.My OH has gone on nude beaches with me(which i thought at the time was brave of her as prior to that shed been very resistant).She enjoyed it at the time but she doesnt do it anyore.Im fine with that its what she wants that counts.
After catching my ex taking photos of other topless women when phone cameras first came out I'm now reluctant to go topless anywhere but my own back garden.
We'd had a huge row earlier as he refused to let me go topless, so seeing him doing that was the last straw. It completely creeped me out to be honest - I still have trust issues after my time with him. It was one of many things that he used to do that would make me feel uncomfortable but apart from the penny dropping at how creepy it felt, the fact that he treated me like his posession made me really angry. His excuse? Men are all creeps and he was protecting me!
My friend dumped her ex a few years ago after she'd found a ton of photos on his phone. He'd been apparently hanging around coffee shops and restaurants trying to take photos of breastfeeding women. There must be something in the water around here.
Luckily, my garden is very secluded so I can sunbathe naked whenever. The only downside there is my dog who likes to drop slobbery toys (his not mine!) on my back.
If I'm swimming in the sea these days I will tie my top around my waist as I love swimming topless. I have to admit I'm not a fan of tan lines on me (but love seeing my OH's white bottom contrasting with his browned back) plus feeling the sun on your skin is just so nice.
Thanks for the advice and comments 👍👍
My OH has a high level of appreciation for toplessness, however takes the view that the harder you look the less likely she is to be comfortable doing it again. Says he would rather know there are bare breasts and not see them, than see them once and never get a chance to see them again.
It's unfortunate that so many men are such complete creeps about it, they spoil it for everyone involved. Just know that many more people out there have their day improved by any generosity, than the few who try to ruin your holiday.
As lots of others have said, do it because you want to, not because it would please someone else. Your body: do what you are comfortable with.
I'm all for pushing personal boundaries and trying new things, but it must first and foremost be because you want to try something new.