That sounds fantastic! I hope our sex life continues to improve as we get older because we both really love sex.
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I was worried my horniness might just be a last hoorah type thing.
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How has the HRT worked for you? If I lose my sex drive I would like to do HRT because I don’t want to lose my sex ife.
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Thanks for all the welcomes and replies everyone.
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We’re new here, but it’s the same for us, we’re both mid-fifties, and we’ve never been as horny or up for trying anything. It not only feels fantastic but pulls us ever closer together and as the kids start leaving home makes us look forward to the next phase of life with excitement!
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That’s great to hear!
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@BUSTYSTCLAIRE hi & welcome to the forum, i see you’ve settled in nicely 
glad you’ve got a higher sex drive. I’m just over 20 years older and i have a high sex drive, unfortunately i can’t say the same about my wife. Take care
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Welcome @BUSTYSTCLAIRE and @Free_Thinkers you are in the right place here
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Hi @BUSTYSTCLAIRE Welcome to the forum
Glad that your husband is supportive especially n your sexual pleasures
40 was the turning point in my sex drive, before this is was always lower than my hubbys But his sex drive as always been high
But the turning point was when i was 40 I put mine down to at the time the so called mummy porn I was reading (50 Shades Series) these books got me curious to try new things
We purchased a few toys in the process like a dildo and vibrator but some were our first like a butt plug and hand/leg restraints oh yes and a blindfold
It was from these and me being open to try new sexual pleasures that we both discovered lbeing tied up unable to resist being dominated but this didn’t last long for our pleasure
We did discovered however anal sex which is a pleasurable feeling when he cums and we also discovered that mutual masturbation is a lot more of a turn on than solo play,which we still enjoy to this day
I believed it was the books but maybe it wasn’t lol
Also do you have mutual respect with your husband because if not your should try it x
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I would love to be able to get my husband to join in on some new things, he does like using toys on me which I like a lot. I want to try some toys on him but he is a bit hesitant.
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Not sure what toys you currently have however a wand on his cock or balls may feel great to him.
Another option if he’s willing is to explore anal toys such as butt plugs or a dildo. Has he ever explored prostate play with toys? This can unlock a whole new realm of pleasure and possibilities.
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I thought that, too, but now at age 82 I am having a resurgence and finding myself feeling sexual a lot. My husband died this year after a long illness (not helpful for sex) and I am relying on masturbation and a dildo. Honestly, I have 8 orgasms a day! Don’t know how long this will last, but am enjoying the ride. Ordered a rabbit vibrator, too. Making plans to try to meet some older men as well as it seems that my sex drive is not dead yet, much to my surprise.
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Good for you, i hope you meet someone.
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My husband is the same, enjoys using toys on me or watching but not on himself. We have bought butt plugs and ones that vibrate as well but have not got round to trying yet. He doesnt want a fleshlight and i did buy him a wand type thing for men but he hasnt tried it yet.
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Good for you @L00ver Age is just a number, if you are able to I would say enjoy every experience. I am so pleased things are good. I hope you find a suitable able man soon.
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He has never tried any toys except a stroker I got once to use on him and he disliked it.
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I would say Ive had the best sex since turning 40. Now in my late 60’s whilst not being able to recover quickly, its now once a day instead of twice. I still enjoy it and still get horny as hell. As ive said before it’s all about quality over quantity 
As was once said to me, “These youngsters think they invented sex” 
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I hear you. I also have better sex since turning 40 and it is also possible to pick up tips from what you read about what the younger generation like - more anal, rimming, pegging etc. it’s all good 
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Definitely! I have more sex now than in my 20’s and masturbation is a daily routine- I also feel like orgasms have got stronger
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Me too well 7 years older then u…. At last I feel like screaming…. Bought crotchless knickers and nipple clips yesterday along with a butt plug…. Disappointed with the butt plug though as couldn’t even feel it…..
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