It’s a fantasy of mine to have one having talked to people who have had them, wouldn’t mind how many males or females.
Want to have one while I’m still young
I’ve had F,M,F and M,F,M and enjoyed them both. I think threesomes are great as long as you keep them under four people. LOL Honestly though, it depends on who you’re with.
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What about MMF I don’t think you’d be sharing him in this case?
I had a MMF experience and there was no Bi involved what so ever. Each of us had consumed copious amounts of alcohol it was more of a laughing fest than anything else.
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Ha ha ha yes it may well had of done. In my experience it was more of a comedy show than a porn film, it was fun but nothing that you’d want to watch and get off to. It was a bit like Laurel and Hardy does a threesome 
As the ‘plus one’, threesomes can work well when everyone is into it
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Definitely a fantasy but no more than that for me.
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Is it acceptable for couples to have threesomes with others? In the case this is acceptable by both people in the relationship, what boundaries do you set?
I would say yes it is acceptable but only if both parties are fully on board. It is then down to them to decide the boundaries and for both to not break these.
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It’s all about communication and trust. If you have that and you’re both 100% onboard and know the boundaries then you’re all good
Of course. The most common occurrence of threesomes is couples adding a third party to their fun, whether male or female. Threesomes between singles do happen but the logistics are obviously trickier because there’s three lines of communication to set one up rather than two.
As for boundaries? That’s down to the couple - but don’t forget the third party will have their own too. It’s not just about the couple. Everyone has to be happy, comfortable and take into account each others enjoyment.
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I definitely would consider MFF or FFF. Think it is a fantasy of mine. I might feel differently if I was in a relationship but being single I can do as I please 
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In my personal experience, a lot of it is the rather hypocritical and somewhat homophobic standard that a second gent is gross but a second girl is hot, and that it’s sexy when girls are bisexual but not when guys are. I’ve had faaaaaar to many negative experience on apps from people who think like this. I’ve been given some pretty nasty responses from folk who want a girl for a threesome because the ‘unicorns’ are hot but believe that bi men are a sin.
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This. 100%. Generally guys in couples as I’ve met many a woman who loves the idea of bi-guys. Many forget that bi men aren’t attracted to or interested in playing with every guy they encounter, just like it’s the same with women. They also forget that a bi male can easily play it ‘straight’ in a threesome with a couple just as easily as they can play bi. There isn’t as much blatant homophobia in the swinging world as there once was but it is still rife with false stereotypes, myths and fallacies. Some men think that being naked in the same room as another guy will make them ‘catch the ghey’ and that the other guy will be pouncing on them at the first opportunity. There’s still sadly the misconception that bi males are also more of an STD risk to a couple. No more of a risk than anyone indulging in sex with multiple partners that doesn’t practice safe sex. Some wouldn’t bat an eyelid at a 20 something female joining them, even though they may have had 100’s of partners yet would recoil in horror at the thought of a guy joining them that has had half a dozen experiences of sucking cock.
It’s a funny old world. 
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Not my experience at all, plenty of guys find me sexy (just saying) and I’ve had successful MMF with both couples and singles
the fifty or so guys in the gang bang sex party I went to didn’t appear to have any issues (although technically not a threesome - seventeen times better?)
It IS a funny old world
Fortunately some men isn’t all men. Doesn’t erase the ton of bad eggs out there because I’ve had good ones too.
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Been to parties as a single person, would not do so otherwise lucky me for being single at that time.
Threesomes are fine as long as both parties are happy, any doubts then bin the idea end off. It’s good until after when questions are asked. You both need to make sure you are entirely happy with each other, comfortable in the fact that you are going to watch your partner have sex with someone else, if not say so before it starts. For some it’s great for others it’s not make sure you are both happy prior. Boundaries are easy to set, what do you like or don’t like, extend that to the threesome.
I would be keen and have another threesome again (it’s been well over 10 years since I did) even if at first was just flirting and playfulness
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