Trying to buy my first impact toy and im not really sure where to start
. im using it solo, so getting the weight behind the swing isnt easy so i was looking for something that will give a decent sting with less effort. Any suggestions? I was thinking floggers, but im open to paddles too
um, daft suggestion but someone suggested it to me… If you don’t know whether to go for a paddle or flogger - you could try using some common household objects such as a spatula from the kitchen to see if you like the shape
I feel stupid even suggesting it ![]()
I second @Kitty-Cat01, try to figure out what type of impact you like first
I love the look of floggers and have a few, but our trusty paddle is my favorite (hoping to get a silicone one for our anniversary for shower spanks
) I think the DOMINIX flogger with the steel dildo is good as the weight of the handle actually makes it easier to get a good swing and the fronds are a bit thicker than the one you were looking at which also helps
If you’re looking for a good sting then I’d say go for a silicone one (either paddle or flogger) as those tend to provide more of a sting (though as a result they are typically marketed towards more experienced users
) ![]()
Thanks @Kitty-Cat01 @rosiedosie super advice. Will have to purloin a spatula and have a go. Right now the flogger is more appealing to me, i love the sensation play it offers (that kind of thing is always a hit with me) but i know people recommend paddles as a good jumping off point so ![]()
Waiting for an empty house and having a bit of an experiment seems sensible
EVERYTHING that @Green_Eyed_Girl posts in the ‘What’s New’ topic. You gotta stop right now girl!
They’ve had some excellent new stock recently. I have a long wishlist too ![]()
Thinking of ordering this but not sure. Not tried anything similar before. Looking to treat myself after a stressful time recently.
Hi @Cupcake2 , I’m thinking about purchasing a womaniser myself. Like you I’ve not used anything like that before. Let me know how it is if you do purchase one x
Same @Cupcake2
I’m going to grab this one while it’s on offer!
Might do that myself
x
I’d quite like a spreader bar for use on the wife or some wrist to thigh cuffs.
We’ve got a decent collection of blindfolds and gags but I always like to keep an eye out for a new gag.
Well I’ve gone for it, thought I may as well while it’s on offer!
Just watched American Horror Stories “Rubber(wo)Man” and now I want her latex catsuit
I’ve been wanting a good quality one but they’re just so gosh darn expensive
Wish lovehoney did them (I’m talking about the £200+ kind, not the kind on the site (which are all more datex material anyway)), even if they are more of a niche item
I am contemplating though, but more of something to save up for ![]()
OH just informed me he doesn’t find them sexy (he has a leg fetish and hates when things cover my legs)
Oh well, guess I’ll just be getting it for myself ![]()
If you do get it, it would be interesting to hear the comparison from someone with both. I have the real feel one and frankly I don’t think I could better the shaft on that. Presumably the ears would be exactly the same so it would all come down to shaft preference.
I have had a couple of thrusting rabbits in the past, one I loved, one I hated so I think it comes down to more than the ability to thrust whether it is wonderful or not. This one certainly gets quite a bit of love on the forum though.
For those considering the Starlet, have a look at other suction toys before you buy - I have one and it is my least used toy. If act the battery has probably died a death.
It just didn’t do anything for me - I wish now that I had done a bit more research and spent a bit more (it was on offer).
I think @Ian_Chimp has produced a comparison table.
Everyone is different - that’s just my experience of it… anyone found it sent them to the 7th heaven?
Oh thanks @MsR
Does anyone know where I can find the comparison?
I think this is the latest comparison table though most information is in both.
I don’t have the starlet so can’t comment on that but I have the Melt and the InsideOut if anyone has any questions on either of those two… I’ve never actually used the app with the Melt
. Both are fantastic but I favour the InsideOut.

