Hey @FindingLibido - it’s all about working your base line, then slowly working up from that. I have the ones that @Ian_Chimp mentioned (review here) and would definitely agree they’re a good mid weight choice.
Alternatively, you could get a set that has interchangeable weights so that you have a range of options. Something like the FSOG Kegel Set.
Hope that helps 
@FindingLibido Tracey Cox sets are good - you can start light and work up.
I can’t see the set I have on the site at the moment, but this set looks very similar.
I’d echo @Ian_Chimp’s warning - kegels are primarily for pelvic floor exercises, imo. Finding them arousing is a bonus if it happens.
Thanks @SexInTheCity @MsR, and @Ian_Chimp for the suggestions. This is more about dealing with the laugh / sneeze / pee matter than sexy time! I think this is where the LH guarantee comes into its own as we may need to try a few to see which is best. The Tracey Cox set looks like a good start.
Just an FYI - The Sex Toy Happiness Promise is a promise rather than a guarantee. It says in the blurb that the amount of times you can claim is at Lovehoney’s discretion, and I know of a few people that have had it declined in the past (mainly due to having used it recently/too frequently). I imagine trying to swop an item multiple times may fall foul of this. 
I was thinking about buying some latex lingerie for my wife. Something we’ve never thought of or even thought of doing before… think it looks proper sexy but my wife isn’t sure just yet.
Going to see what she thinks about the wet look lingerie which is equally as nice.
Think my wife would look with these on https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=45035
So, as the title suggests, I wondered what is on people’s wishlists? I’m just nosy! Mine is rather long but here are the two I’m most interested in:
Rose butt plug - because it’s so pretty!
I love corsets - I’m trying to justify the cost
Love the rose plug. To be honest the majority of my stuff are fleshlights or things I can put my dick in haha. Managed to get this from my wishlist after getting a 40% off. It’s amazing.
There’s a few lingerie on there for the wife
p.s…get the corset 
@KentCouple1990 I probably will get it, I wish I had 40% off! It’s not my birthday until July so a long time to wait
Yeah any expensive purchases I just wait for the discount or see if there are any offers on. I can add so much to my wishlist it’s unreal
I’m about to put this on my wish list for my OH … https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=38491
Then for myself I’d like to try this … https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22960
@Kitty-Cat01 that rose butt plus is really nice! Also that corset is very appealing.
Both of these look amazing!
I am on the lookout for a bigger plug - I currently have the LH Medium Silicone Plug but I am looking to size up as I have really been enjoying the stretched and open feeling I get from it after a while.
I am not sure what to though as most of the ones I see on the site seem like a bit too much of a jump in size, Aprox 5.5 - 7.5 inches circumference seems a lot?
There does seem to be a big jump up! I haven’t got to the point of wanting more than 5inches circumference at the moment so can’t recommend anything in particular. Have you tried glass / metal plugs? They feel a lot bigger than silicone ones because they are so solid and metal ones are heavy. Might it be worth trying a metal / glass medium plug?
Yes - I was the same till recently - I thought ~ 5in seemed big, but I have been using it regularly now… which leads to wanting more!
Yes, I had one jewel one (loved the metal, but not the design, and my most recent purchase was an Icicles glass one, although not as big I do like it too. My main worry with a lot of glass ones is a kind of insufficient base size.
Metal wise I do really fancy an Njoy 2.0 - but they are pretty expensive vs a silicone one - I am sure it is worth it, but I think I would like bigger first, then circle back to the Njoy.
Possibly although I’m not sure I’d bother wearing anything over it though 
I was thinking I might even get away with wearing it with jeans as a “going out” top! (when we are allowed to go out of course)
@Kitty-Cat01 I have that rose butt plug in the large it’s stunning. I love it
I was considering the medium but it’s my first glass one so being cautious this time! And I like the swirls. My only concern was whether the base was big enough, the flower base part is kind of tapered slightly. I’m sure it would be fine and the reviews are good so it’s probably nothing to worry about - is the large one similar?
The large one has a large rose and no way would it get “lost”.
It looks stunning and think that the smaller size is the best choice for your first one. Glass and metal feel larger than they actually look.
@Kitty-Cat01 that corset looks lovely.
Remember, if you have Unlimited membership, you will get a discount - check your account page if you are unsure.
I have this one and I love it.
Both are front fastening, too, which is a helpful feature in a corset!