Given the opportunity, what do you wish you had learnt ten years ago….?
Well for me I’m thinking more 20+ years ago!!! but for me it would be turn on her mind first!!! I loved foreplay but I rushed to it… warm up the mind and the rest will follow
2 Likes
The importance of compatibility and how liberating it is when you find a person who is as much an experimentalist as you are.
3 Likes
I wish I had learned a lot more about the clitoris and how to stimulate it.
Never heard of one ? Is that some sort of climbing plant ?
7 Likes
I wish i’d had more experience as a BDSM submissive to be able to guide hubby/others. I mean, I knew/know how to please hubby, but serving a seasoned Dom versus someone who just enjoys BDSM for the sake of the relationship is quite different. Being chosen by and serving an experienced Dom taught me a lot about my desirability (I used to think I wasn’t desirable because I was too strong-willed) and my potential, what kind of submissive I am etc.
3 Likes
I have always been very shy about sex. Like a lot of people I would masturbate from when I was a teenager. Using the likes of Mayfair to jerk off. When I was in my late 30’s I went for a massage. The lady must have been about 50 and attractive. As she was rubbing oil over me I got so hard. I turned onto my back and she started playing with my cock. I shot my load and the pleasure was amazing.
6 Likes
This is soo important for women
Samantha here. That quality is better than quantity. Or to put it another way…better sex with someone i love 4 times a week is better than crap sex with strangers 10 times a week.
2 Likes
That I’m submissive and adore feminisation, pegging and pain.
Hmm not sure there is anything off the top of my head I’d have wished… I can say every discovery has been a fun part of a sexual journey what keeps throwing out pleasing surprises!
1 Like
That I explored my g spot more. Plus, I wish I realised how much my man doesn’t care about any ‘jiggly bits’ or cellulite 
I wish I was more experimental back then. But maybe just a confidence thing which improves with age.
6 Likes
Oh I’m so with you there @CuriousCat40! I’ve been so disgusted with myself for years and thought my OH wasn’t attracted to me. We hadn’t had sex in years or very very rarely. I’ve lost a bit of weight and feel amazing. Now I’m more confident, I’ve realised my OH fancies the pants off me and we are at it every day. It’s unbelievable!
6 Likes
Maybe a few more than 10 years ago, but wish I had realised that I am bisexual sooner. Also that I have a very sexually curious mind, so keen to try a wide variety of things, OH unfortunately isn’t at all, so huge frustration!
Mr H here
nspired by Mr good guy. I’d go with, all women are different and have different pleasures and kinks. There is no text book to help 
I wish I had learned more about sex many many years ago. I am learning things on this forum so hopefully I can start enjoying sex again, doctors permitting. At 71 I have a lot of pleasure to catch up with.
3 Likes
I am not into pain. I am in enough pain to start with.
And the truth is they fancied us all the while we were worrying about jiggy and flabby bits. My H says he doesn’t even see the things I’m worrying about, he just sees a sexy women he wants to get it on with, all the time. 
6 Likes
Wish I had known more about clitoris and g spot stimulation, held back on the use of wands and focused more on manual stimulation!
1 Like
Have as much as you can when you’re young.
4 Likes