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Hi. I have reduced sensation due to a medical issue so frustratingly usually fail to feel satisfied. I was thinking of trying a clit clamp. I’m intrigued by the idea. Any advice welcome :slightly_smiling_face: thank you

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Hi @RachelW welcome :hugs:

Are you thinking of something like this?

Take it steady, plenty of lube and don’t over do it on the first time, like a cock ring no more that 30 minutes max I would say. Read the advice.

Hope you have fun and there are also other ways to stimulate to pleasure and completion happy to talk about the many possibilities. There are many excellent people here to help out as well, both female and male, to many to ping in one go. But I’m sure they will say hi over the next day or two.

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Firstly, im sorry a medical issue as caused you to have reduced sensations.

If you could let us kmow exactly how amd where it affects you, thay would be very helpful. We could be recommending clit toys all day long, if that is the zone most affected, it may not be very helpful.

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That looks fun but I was looking at the beginner ones you slide to fit? I’m not sure which are best :slightly_smiling_face:

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I have got some sensation in my clit but it just needs enhancing!

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If you feel happy to do so could you drop a link to the one you have seen on the Lovehoney website please

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Also if it’s only clitoral stimulation that you are looking for this might be an excellent addition to your toy chest in the future, the whole range can literally suck the O’s right out of you.

Also don’t get hung up on one type as said before there are many ways of finding something that helps you orgasm.

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Yes of course. I’ve been looking at this one (https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/bondage/nipple-clitoral-toys/clit-clamps/p/lovehoney-pinch-perfect-adjustable-clitoral-clamp/a31537g54512.html)

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I’m not sure where to start to be honest. These seemed to appeal most then I may move on to other areas :slightly_smiling_face:

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I have one of these in the toy box, it came out of the advent calendar I brought from the site last year. It’s easy to use, again if you are not practiced with them check out the advice I linked in my first post and if you need I can link it again.

Using it to restrict the blood flow and numb the clit while playing it increases the sensation once you take it off and the blood flow resumes. You can also wear it while doing a few simple tasks around the house for extra naughtiness and reward after the task is complete.

Good luck in your adventures.

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Thank you so much. I may try the one you posted a link too :slightly_smiling_face:

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Have you tried vibrators before?
Were they any good for you?

I’m thinking a powerful wand coupd help you blow the cob webs off there???

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No I haven’t tried much at all. Really new to the toys. I haven’t needed them in the past. I’ll have a look at one of those on the website​:slightly_smiling_face:

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I am sorry about the loss of sensation. Unfortunately I have no knowledge of clit clamps but have you thought about other things such as a bullet (can be very cheap) so may be worth a go. Also on members say a Womanizer give great results. A more expensive option would be a wand (the mains powered ones seem to get best results) Take a look and look at all options. Welcome to the forum.

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Hey and welcome! I would suggest trying a suction toy as that should make your clit more sensitive due to the suction causing additional blood flow to the area.

The romp x lovehoney toy is only £29.99 at the moment too!

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/clitoral-suction-vibrators/p/lovehoney-x-romp-switch-clitoral-suction-stimulator/a44869g81901.html

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Thank you! This sounds promising. So many options to consider :smiley:

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Thank you. I will have a good look at the website :smiley:

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First of all, welcome to the forum.

Secondly, I’m sorry to hear about your condition. I see you haven’t shared with us what your condition is and so other members have had to take a bit of a pot-luck approach with helping you find a solution, but I’m sure we can help you find one :slight_smile:

I personally have mild spina bifida occulta (“hidden” spina bifida) which affects my bladder - when I need to pee, I need to pee, like, yesterday :joy: I’m a nightmare to travel with because if we miss the services then there may well be an accident, it just won’t be one with other vehicles involved.

Unfotunately, because of my spine (I have lordosis too, so yay for that), my pelvic region is also affected, leading to a tilted cervix and, yep, a “meh” clit. I can have orgasms but they take a looong time and just the right amount of pressure, and heaven help us if something happens and I lose focus.

Personally, my absolute go-to is this little cutie. Around the seventh speed and my orgasms are pretty much guaranteed.

Good luck, and have fun :slight_smile:

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Love this!!! Excellent design. Very cute.

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Thank you. I think this kind of toy will be the one! Sounds amazing. I haven’t been diagnosed even after five years of tests. They thought it may be multiple sclerosis but all tests have been clear. It has affected my sensation in the most important area among others. But the most important area is so frustrating. My orgasms, when I can get one is very tame :frowning:

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