What is the kink that surprised you, that you are into?

Butt-play in general (as a dude). Never would have expected it. I like the idea of prostate play still more than the reality, but I love getting rimmed - I love sitting on my wife’s face and alternating between tea-bagging and rimming while I play with her breasts or clit.

We’ve explored a wide range of other kinks and things on the BDSM spectrum and nothing else has been “surprising” to me as a lot of things feel like they’re just one step further this way or that way, or just another few steps down this direction, whereas everything around my butt feels unexpected.

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Got to be rimming (receiving) I think it was a complete accident a partner was milking me while I was on all fours she was kissing my bum cheeks then all of a sudden O that feels really nice.

I think she was seeing what and where I liked to be kissed as she was kissing my balls and everwhere she could while I was on all fours. I think it turned her on to do it as it was a first for her and me.

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Anal play and crotchless pants.

I’ve now got a small collection of butt plugs and crotchless pants. Both are used when my wife and I are having sex.

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Being watched

Never did I think I’d have a kink like this however being watched is what I desire lately!

So many possibilities :smiling_imp: fucking while being watched by a friend or even friends or maybe even a stranger………….masturbating in front of someone or a even a group.

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I’m not too sure of how much a kink we will get into this. But we saw an artist at the o2 during the week. Mad traffic jam trying to get out of car park.

The Mrs decided it was a good time to give me a hand job. First time she’s done that in the car and it was somewhat well lit around.

Was a strange experience but the short time it took me to cum seems to say I enjoyed it, she did too! I wonder if it this new thing will continue…

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Like it when my wife puts a coller and lead on me on me whilst pegging me with a large dildo abusing my bum cheeks with a pin wheel at the same time leaving marks, she also uses the wheel round front!

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I love her using the pinwheel on my nipples, especially when they’re clamped.

She uses it on my exposed glans too and that’s right on the edge of what I can bear.

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Mine was anal play for me, I was intrigued for ages then plucked up the courage to ask my wife to do it for me, it is now a regular in our relationship, I have asked her to peg me next which would be a huge step for us

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Giving crossdressers blow jobs. Started with a “girl” I met in a pub and I’ve done it a few times since

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When I was much younger, it was crossdressing with my GF. Not sure how it even started but once it did having sex with her while wearing some of her clothes was heaven for me. Haven’t done it in decades.

Recently it has been licking my wife’s asshole. Happened by accident a couple of years ago. Never had an interest in it until then and now I can’t get enough of it. She likes it but not all the time so when she’s up for it, its a real treat for me!

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wife and I and our friend his name is bull having a threesome it really does her good

I have to agree with several others… watersports and cage chastity.

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Cage Chasity Mmmm :thinking:

Smells …… my partner when she’s sweaty and also the scent of her butt and pussy on her underwear, It sends me like a wild animal

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I’m still trying to work my way into my Mrs butt. She’s not keen on it… but the forbidden fruit is always the most tasty!

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Im going to say impact play. Went from zero to owning 2 floggers and 3 paddles in a few weeks. I really enjoy turning he body red

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The fact of even a well groomed and endowed man gets my attention for what ever reason and … up to maybe 8 years ago panties was a passing thought today I love wearing women’s panties they feel really good etc.

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Body wrap with cling film / stretch wrap. Experienced it 3 times in different ways and remains the most erotic experience I have experienced. Lots of close second choices but cling film is definitely number 1.

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I would love to try some really extreme cuckold play with a guy

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Have you tried Latex? Might be up your street if you like it tight