Which post are you referring to?
That’s happened to me once.
Completely mummified in cling film with just my genitals left uncovered for her pleasure and amusement.
- Anal sex - only recently and loving it
- DP - again very recently - amazing orgasms
- Hair being pulled - again very recently
- Hand around my throat - very recently
- Toes and fingers being sucked - phew
Been with my OH almost 38 years, but thanks to menopause/ HRT my libido has returned better than ever. I also decided if you don’t try how do you know if you do / don’t like something? We are consenting adults - we are our only boundaries!
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@batjamboree …apologies if ive asked this previously, but what satisfaction do you get from pegging your husband . Is it a domination thing or is there a physical sensation from the dildo harness.?
@KinkyMira . What is it with watersports that gives you enjoyment?
I do enjoy watching my wife pee, on the odd occasion out doors more so. ( i dont know why), but that is as far as it has gone.
Being rimmed… ive always loved giving to my wife but never thought id enjoy receiving as much as i do nlw
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It is various feelings I get -
1… it looks good
2… I feel powerful
3… it brings pleasure to him
4… when pegging him - his penis grows to a massive beast and after I finish he does me
I know it sounds funny but would you ask a woman why they suck a man’s cock - it’s done to please your man and that’s the biggest factor - sexually it does very little - but it does turn me on
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My wife feels exactly the same about pegging. We have, in the past, tried vibrating strapless strap-ons so that she could feel pleasure while she was pegging me but she found them distracting so she stopped using them.
She loves pegging me
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For the power dynamic and role reversal.
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Because of the pleasure it gives me.
If she wants to come she slips a pebble vibrator inside her harness briefs but she usually does that when I’m taking the dildo in my mouth rather than my ass.
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@batjamboree . Thank you. A very detailed and understandable explanation.
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My wife would sign off on all of these, as well as @rockstar’s comments. She gets a similar pay off from putting me in a collar, strapping me down, and sitting on my face, riding me, or teasing me otherwise. She’s especially fond of the visual aspect (I’ve taken pretty good care of myself as a rapidly approach 40 years old - I’m tall and objectively relatively fit and strong) of seeing me splayed out and watching the dildo she is thrusting slides in and out is a massive turn on for her and a signal of my absolute submission and trust.
A lot of it is definitely psychological, but we all know that the brain is the most important sexual organ, so it checks out. And she stimulates herself as desired while doing it as well.
Actually, the only thing @batjamboree said that I don’t relate to as much is point 4. For some reason, so far, an stimulation is a bit of a boner killer. Not an arousal-killer, but my erection just doesn’t hold, and in fact I can cum (full blown ejaculation and orgasm) without every pushing past semi-erect. As that is also probably a mental thing, I hope that more time with it will rectify the situation. Or not. Etiher way, we’ll keep playing.
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It’s really hard to explain. It’s the feeling it gives me. It’s the taboo, it’s the physical connection, it’s the sheer abandon of doing it, it’s the joy it gives us both, it’s the shared secret, it’s the performance, it’s the power, it’s the raw desire, it’s the acceptance, all rolled into one. I just feel amazing when I do it, probably more so than any other act. I never thought I’d love it, but I do so much.
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@KinkyMira
In the summer I started water sports and do it now and again in the bathroom where I sit on a tall stool he is in the bath and then lay backwards and release over him - but I find aiming is poor - I find it can very often run down my legs and I don’t want that - any suggestions would be appreciated 
@batjamboree A couple of things that spring to mind. Firstly, control. You need to practice going from nothing to full power stream in one go. It is a mind thing. It took a little time to get it, but now I can.
Secondly, try a full/very full bladder. If you only have a little in your bladder, it is more likely to dribble. If you are full, it is more likely to be a powerful stream, and also when the stream starts slowing, stop before it gets to dribble. It is all just practice and muscle control.
Also, as you get control of your stream, your aim will improve too. Perhaps try without him to remove performance pressure from your practices.
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Yeah, I agree with you there @LRLRL … I won’t maintain an erection while getting pegged because I’m too focused on the feelings I’m getting from, well, getting pegged. But then I’m a lot older, so maybe that’s a factor also?
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This is very common and there are other threads about it. In my case I think it’s because the sensations from being anally fuxxed completely overwhelm any other sensations and my penis loses interest. I can still come when not erect though.
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I believe I have shared this before, sharing/feeding me my own cum. We have been married 40 yeears and never shied away from a cum kiss after a bj, or going down on my wife after PIV. The past few years though this has become a fetish of ours. Just last night I had my Mantric prostate massager in while wife edged me. This massager hits the spot, lots of pre-cum and cum oozing out as she would bring me to the edge. She would rub it on her tits for me to lick off or have me lick it off her fingers. After I came she had me lick the entire load off her fingers. We engage in this many different ways at times and like I said has become a fetish of ours.
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Oh! Tons of ideas for watersports. Start a new thread or bump up an old one.
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Just tried to put another thread to top of list.Had loads of “Golden Adventures” which i will post over coming weeks.Absolutely love piss play.
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@be3169
Just started a new thread- please assist
@HappyInPanties
Hope you had a good Christmas- and I have started a new thread - please help as I want to improve my showers
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