He has an issue with me using my finger. Hes scared of mess so im going to get a douche for him and hopefully it will give him some confidence. Its weird as he doesnt have any concerns with mess when performing anal on me 
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We don’t have an open relationship in terms of involving other people but we are very open to changing the relationship and very open to talking about it if that’s what you meant.
That’s exactly what I meant 
@HappyInPanties
Serious respect for you and your wife
Love the fact you enjoy your lingerie and pegging which is what me husband are also into
Can I ask - I’m looking to buy him a babydoll - have you got one and can you recommend any - preferably in white ( currently love him in white lingerie) 
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Watersports
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Pegging, wife is starting to get more into the Femdom aspect of pegging in which I do enjoy. We also have a cum fetish, wife likes for me to lick my cum off of her body or cream pie. One of the things we enjoy is I have a prostate massager that really hits the spot and cum just oozes out of me while have prostate orgasms, my wife love having me lick it off her fingers or tits. When I finally ejaculate she love feeding me my cum. Especially love this when she has me tied to the bed.
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I completely agree. I lost my Dad to bone marrow cancer at 60 (I was 30) and it taught me so much about life and living, about being grateful for what we do have, instead of bemoaning what we don’t have, and also living your life as if each day might be your last. Dad lived a healthy life; he exercised plenty, never smoked or took drugs, only drank the occasional glass of red wine and he never touched junk food. The rest of my family fell apart but I realised that I could fall apart with them, or I could go on living in his honour. Ultimately, I chose to do what he would want me to do.
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Hmm not sure there’s much kinky I do on my own but is plenty I want to try when I can get someone to stick around 
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Pegging is probably the “kinkiest” thing in our repertoire but it’s all relative. We routinely practice anal, DP, bondage, D/S play, and copious use of toys. Turns out we’re really not that into S&M, but B/D and D/S really rev both our engines. My wife has a bit of a degradation/humiliation kink, but it’s all contained to the context of our bedroom, so it probably would be considered pretty tame as far as some folks take it.
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@Gareth
Big into being naked outdoors - living in mid wales not many people around to upset
Also a big collector of men’s porn magazines- just love them
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Sorry to hear that. Similar here. Lost my mum to lung cancer at 54. (I was 29). It truly puts your own mortality into perspective! I definately have a different outlook on life since then
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We aren’t particularly kinky I don’t think - but we do have long, fun sex sessions.
Love throwing baths together and long massages in the mix first - love controlling the environment with smells, candles, lights and music.
We have tons of wet look and similar lingerie and I love it when my wife does a lingerie fashion show.
Watching her change in and out of different outfits, with a few sexy dances and poses for pics in between (and the odd blowie!)
Really spices the night up for us.
Love it when we get on the bed together and she masturbates with fingers and toys while I have my P in her V, talking and laughing together.
The feeling of her cumming hard and squeezing my cock just gets me so fired up.
Phew … getting steamed up!!! 
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We’ve tried a few things. Pegging is a favourite, we also like to have sex outside (but difficult to find good places around here). Probably the kinkiest thing was she peeing on me while I was inside her. I found it super hot (in every sense of the word!)
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Thanks for the suggestion. I’ll take a look for sure.
I’ve also been watching some ‘sex coaching’ videos recently too. Just for ideas to try and some variety to keep her on her toes than anything.
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Absolutely re sex and kinkiness being relative. Degradation and humiliation kinks, in my opinion, are insanely hot.
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Ha, less likely to get away with it as easily in the South!
I can imagine the neighbours are happy.
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This is great inspiration. I think we’re sometimes too quick to get into touching eachother (I’m more guilty of that!).
Love the idea of the lingerie fashion show to help slow things down and build suspense… esp with some light sexual contact in between.
I have been meaning to give her more massages recently too, but not actioned on that yet.
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Hi batjamboree,love following your posts and respect to you pair too.The fact you talked earlier on in your marriage about your desires and put it all out in the open so to speak now means you can live life to the full and have a wonderful sex life which makes for a very happy marriage.As for BabyDolls i have about 20,half of them from LH.Personally i find the “Bombshell” range great for us guys.The fact there is no fitted/underwired pronounced boob area and just stretchy material is great for us.Only downside on this b-doll is it is only available in black,red and blue.I would love LH to produce in white,pink and lemon as well.One set i would love and wife is really wishing will appear in larger size is the Vintage Romance Sheer Ivory Lace Corset Set,she keeps telling me she feels she would climax on the spot if she could see me dressed in that (Please LH,larger size!!).The Peek-a-boo is available in white which will be my next purchase and i’ll let you know how that goes.The Escante set looks good too but only goes to 18-20 and the Baby Doll gift set in white looks good also but again too small for me.Let us know what you purchase and how it looks,i know for sure he will adore being in a BadyDoll.I’m certain there are many more couples on this forum with the husband longing to get into lace.Hopefully the postings from all of us couples who enjoy this harmless but oh so sexy side of our lives will give encouragement to anyone longing to indulge this little pleasure but feel too shy or that it is somehow wrong.Plus any increase in sales to LH for lingerie for us guys can only benefit us all!!My wife and i have a sex life which is awesome and i am a lot nearer to 70 than 60.
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Sure thing. For us tease and denial is fun, but also forced orgasms (hubby prefers to force me to orgasm than likes to be forced to orgasm). We don’t do the whole asking for permission thing that a lot of people who play with orgasm control do because you can’t gaurantee communication, and I get quite unproductive when I want to get off
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I’m so sorry to hear that. Yes, you definitely do!