I want to do this with my partner, how did you get over the stigma. I want to please him as much as he pleases me. Any advice would be appreciated.
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Kinkiest, possibly my wifes hand all the way up my bum, a metal rod in my wifes pee hole, she likes, me riding a very large butt plug
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Hi @Izzy76,
I guess firstly is it something you partner wants to try, I was intrigued by it, seen it in porn, read about it so thought it was something I wanted to try… It took a leap of faith to talk to my wife about it, but I gave her permission to do it while giving me a blowjob and she could stick a well lubed finger inside… which was the start of the journey…
The advice I’d give is talk to him, maybe watch some tutorials or read some advice, because OMFG it feels so good especially when coupled with something else.
Hope that helps.
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Hi, nice post. And interesting replies.
We like to mix it up, doing the same things repeatedly can take the kink /naughty out of it (for us) - doing it occasionally keeps it special.
So here’s a few things
Start with water sports, a little light shower fun, or bath. Me sat, her above, did get drunk on hols and I let some go in my mouth (I think lol - drunk)
Love it when she spits in my mouth as we’re French kissing, love the taste of her.
Rimming, oral.
I’ve posted this before, but dares can be a great way to try new things.
Write a bag of cards with dares on them, you write some, and your OH.
Anything u really would like to push, try as a forfeit - mix in shots to lube up participation lol
Photo shoots are always good, but use props, lingerie etc - look online for provocative poses and try and re create
Furry tail butt plug
Get your OH to do the housework naked, just a furry tail. Dare them to go by the window with the vacume or to the bin.
Finish off in doggy holding up the tail while you enter from behind
Wear butt plug to the supermarket, a sml comfy one if its in for a while
Remember sex doesn’t have to stay in the bedroom -
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“Sex doesn’t have to stay in the bedroom” is so true. Not kinks but I have several fantasies that require not being in the bedroom.
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I was eating my burger and fries and also enjoying my Corona at one end of a picnic table while two boyz were going at it hardcore at the other end. Does that count?
Aside from having female housemate peg me regularly It would be me wanking in front of her and 3 of her friends. I really love them watching me.
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Probably pegging, or fucking myself with my own…
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I admit, my kink is rather vanilla. But I really dig women’s feet and shoes. I love the way they smell — natural female scent and leather, with a touch of perfume overspray. I get rock hard at this.
Lately, I’ve found out that I’m really into bandage, too. Restraining a woman and taking care of her is so hot. My wife and I discovered this while fooling around in bed. She loves being restrained and she came harder than ever. I enjoyed an enthusiastic blowjob afterward!
I’m also slightly bisexual, so I enjoy having something cocklike inside me. One night, I worked up the nerve to ask my wife to fuck me with her dildo, and it opened up a world of sexual adventure.
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We are into a little of everything
Still a relatively new relationship so finding out what eachother likes
Currently loving spitting in eachothers mouthes, nipple play (on him), face slapping (on me)
Anal is a fairly regularly part of our sex life as is verbal domination (him to me)
So much fun
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I think my husband has a foot fetish. A few times now he has fired his load all over my feet. He then massages his cum into my skin. I do love a foot massage so have no objection to him doing it at all.
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There’s such a negative stigma around foot fetishes, but my partner loves mine. She’s realised how much of an erogenous part of the body feet are when they are kissed, sucked, tickled and played with.
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I enjoy putting a hood and spider gag on my partner. Then chaining/tying her up and taking advantage. There’s something hot about the anonymity of it, while also depriving her of senses.
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Self facial
Eating my own cream pie
Anal play and getting into pegging.
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Pegging
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My wifes entire fist in my bum
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Cross dressing, eating my cum or anal play, Don’t know which is the kinkiest, you tell me
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We thing we are very kinky. Always inventing new sex games to use our huge toy collection. Pegging and fisting is our biggest kink all anal play really, watersports, edging and post orgasm torture. Rope play. The list goes on I’m recently experimenting with sounding. It’s a lot easier to list our limits which is very few than our kinks. 
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Kinky would be whatever you feel most kinky doing. Kinky for me would be crossdressing because it’s not something that I do, cum eating and anal play are nearly a daily occurrence here so they don’t seem that kinky to us anymore
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We do a fair bit of kink but I think for me it’s a bit of bdsm. I have a particular love of being cuffed, gagged and blindfolded, often for quite lengthy periods while being teased and played with, before being allowed to finish, or have sex with my wife.
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