I did a quick search but couldn't find a thread on this subject.
I wondered , as so many of us are keen to share what really gets us going, would we be just as willing to share what doesn't ?
A few random things for me are -
Bad breath - Ewwww , no thank you. Infact anyone with poor personal hygeine in general is going to make me run in the opposie direction !
Facial hair - Sorry, but beards and such like just don't float my boat. A little bit of stubble is ok at times though.
Arrogance and people who think they are the "Bee's Knee's" as it were - Nothing more ugly than an over inflated ego.
Trying too hard - Seeming desperate is never a good thing either.
Have to disagree with the facial hair - i find that a real turn on as long as its tidy and trimmed.
I dont find feet very sexy i think there better off being left alone.
I also find arrogant people a turn off there is always more to learn and no bodys perfect!
I find people who dont try hard enough a turn off, theres nothing worse than putting in lots of effort to not get the same attention back.
Slightly disagree with the feet - I have a real passion for my feet getting some attention - really gets me going
its really down to personal preferance i just dont like people near my feet, im ok with touching other peoples if thats what they want but id rather others leave my feet alone. apart from that you never know if someones ticklish and u might get a foot to the face!
suze9
June 23, 2010, 10:09am
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Feet (his full stop and mine being touched), hairy backs and bad breath are major turn offs for me.
Hella Rouge (LH) wrote:
Great idea for a subject :)
Garlic. Yuck. Think I'm allergic, this does not make me happier.
General inability to take care of ones appearance and hygiene.
The use of the words 'minge, flange, twat, mini, FANNY (THE WORST!), prick and pole' in dirty talk.
Being rammed like a pneumatic drill on tarmac.
Failure to kiss - kissing is the biggest turn on.
Physical coyness.
Regular blood.
Socks on.
Weird and novelty man-gerie.
Yeah....I'm not a difficult woman to please :s
OMG I completely forgot failure to kiss !
I agree the use of language like that is non too appealing !
As for socks on ? Ummm yeah , not really good lol
X lovely lady X wrote:
its really down to personal preferance i just dont like people near my feet, im ok with touching other peoples if thats what they want but id rather others leave my feet alone. apart from that you never know if someones ticklish and u might get a foot to the face! External Media
In actual fact, tickling is part of what gets me going, if its done teasingly. I dont know why, I can't understand it myself ! But it does the trick lol
i dont like hairy backs either.
I can cope with bad breath as long as its not constant - the odd day a month a could cope with but i will point it out to them!!
I quite like the geeky strange look of only wearing socks, its not a turn on but its not a turn off either
im not very ticklish but if im tickled in a teasing way where im not forcably tickled them its ok. I hate not being able to make someone stop tickling me i laugh but really im angry haha
Arrogance, smoking, fakeness (tan, nails, boobs, attitude), closed-mindedness, bad hygeine, clingyness, coldness, selfishness
I think for me personality traits are much more off putting than physical ones!
xxKPxx
Selfishness, LOTS of back and chest hair, smoking, weighing less than me, bad hygiene, clingyness and most of all wingers!
The first guy I was with sexually (didn't go out with) was disgusting and all of the above accept the weighing less one was HIM! YUCK! >.<
Tindra
June 23, 2010, 2:05pm
13
Jealousy - very unattractive in both sexes
Body hair in general, including chest hair. Yuck.
Bad kissers
Bad breath/ bad BO
Smoking
Lack of intelligence
Closemindedness
For me its:
People that kiss like a wet fish...
Smokers breath/bad breath in general
Bad teeth......just rank!!
Blokes then spend more time in the mirror than myself and think they are gods gift!!
Hairy backs
Clingy..'follow you around like a puppy' types
Non imaginative types - you know the ones that just drill you from behind, same position and have never visited the island of clit
Inane porn talk in the bedroom - yeah baby......right there.....etc etc to infinity
Pretty but dim types.......look amazing...but soon as they open their mouth........zzzzzzzzz
Bad personal hygiene.......nothing more off putting than an underarm stink party and crotch rot.........eeeeeeeek!!
toxycat wrote:
For me its:
People that kiss like a wet fish...
Smokers breath/bad breath in general
Bad teeth......just rank!!
Blokes then spend more time in the mirror than myself and think they are gods gift!!
Hairy backs
Clingy..'follow you around like a puppy' types
Non imaginative types - you know the ones that just drill you from behind, same position and have never visited the island of clit
Inane porn talk in the bedroom - yeah baby......right there.....etc etc to infinity
Pretty but dim types.......look amazing...but soon as they open their mouth........zzzzzzzzz
Bad personal hygiene.......nothing more off putting than an underarm stink party and crotch rot.........eeeeeeeek!!
That did make me External Media
I have two main ones!
1) Bad breath- the ultimate no no!
2) cringeworthy sayings including the words/phrases: fanny, 'get it in the hole', minge!
LIL_KNOWN69 wrote:
being too hot External Media
All the more reason for a cold shower ..... together External Media
Nexas wrote:
The big one at the moment is smoking. Because it's summer women tend to turn my head more (dunno if it's due to horniness or lack of clothing) and there have been so many occassions when I've seen someone, thought they were REALLY attractive, then realised they were smoking and gone RIGHT off.
TBH I don't really find it attractive either and it certainly doesn't help with the whole avoiding bad breath thing.
I reckon it's the lack of clothing that adds to your horniness External Media
limp handshakes
wilful ignorance
BO
arrogance
people that are too touchy-feely too soon (I'm a tactile person, but only when I know people properly)
