Used the fapinstructor again and found the reddit rabbit hole it uses for visual stimulation. BUT this time no hands! Kegels only.
Got interrupted whilst testing a fleshlight which kind of lost the moment. Went back to it but a very non sexy TikTok background noise was not really helping the head space to continue!
After TikTok had put OH to sleep I carried on using the FL and the fap instructor site to combine some edging and a custom playlist of material to get back in the mood. Got there eventually but it wasn’t as intense as hoped. The FL felt like it dried out too often breaking focus and for all its cool design the different textures were hard to access (though pressing really firmly helped). Cleaning still is a pain but a handy cloth to help dry the inside helped take some of the aggro out.
Read somewhere that some FL sleeves take a few goes to really get the best so not going to rush a review on this one on one use.
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Until this morning 4 days ago I think 
And I think I needed it too 
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Last night in the shower over some amazing pics I was sent.
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Yesterday morning after trying out my home made cock jewelry . A good first effort , but the shaft needs to be longer and ribbed or bulbed . Also I used the setting the fake diamond was held in , too bulky . Then I used my new vibrating stroker , damn it feels so good .
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This morning after a few days hiatus due to being away camping. Long distance with the Lush3. Fuuuuuck… so good 
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Last night in the shower. Have friends staying with us at the moment and they want to stay up late chatting so the shower is my only chance for some solo play!
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this morning. Much needed!
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A few hours ago.
Still trying to love my new Desire wand.
Laid out 2 towels hopeful for some epic orgasms and a spider came running out from the folds 
Temporarily traumatised and chased it away, got back to it and got 2 very delightful orgasms for which the towels were needed 
The wand and I are much friendlier now, the last few times I forgot to grab the lube and today was much better with it. The rumbles were delicious.
A few more orgasms and testing the rhythms and I’ll be ready to review it 
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Been edging all day, finally had to give in and use my fleshlight. Great relief but might need to start again soon
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You’re made of stronger stuff than me! An 8 legged assassin out to get me in the sheets would be a complete mood killer [1] 
Hooray for the blossoming relationship with your Desire though!
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Yes, I know they are extremely important and helpful individuals but even reading James and Giant Peach didn’t alleviate my terror! ↩︎
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My ex had spiders as pets and they stayed in his bedroom, took me ages to be able to spend the night and actually sleep
Not being terrified of spiders anymore is a positive I took from that relationship!
The wand and I had a date and nothing was getting in my way!
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This morning.
Realised my orgasm with the wand is different than it is with the suction toy.
With the suction it is a slow steady build to a really intense orgasm with no squirting unless I use a dildo at the same time.
With the wand its a bit frustrating as it doesn’t have the same clit intensity initially and then all of a sudden the orgasm is building, I squirt and then I orgasm.
What I have discovered is that if I turn the speed up and then down on the Desire wand, I feel the rumbles better. And after I do orgasm if I change the rhythm to the next setting it keeps the orgasm come down from coming all the way down and thats when I go through the rhythms and build it back up to the consistent setting for orgasm 2 
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Last night bit of mutual masturbation for us OH used fingers and a vibe I on the other hand just a hand with a butt plug in
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About 30 minutes ago. I had a very naughty day today, all day. Started with dry humping a pillow for 10 minutes in the morning, not to orgasm, just to wake myself up. Then, because I still don’t have any real toys (still waiting for my first order to arrive - damn these shipping holdups), I used home-made ones. I had made a sort of halter from wrap around belts, based on a Shibari scarf set-up for pegging, but turned around to be for holding a dildo inside you, and I used it to keep a short candle in my pussy while I did my morning exercises and tai chi. Made exercising a lot more fun than usual. I had two tradesman coming by today, and I decided to leave the candle in as my sexy secret, but partway through the second one I had to go and take it out because the halter was starting to chafe. So I finished off the second tradesman visit commando. After he left, I spent some time in the shower, alternating between face down and ass up for some anal stimulation and on my back for clit and labia stimulation. Again, not to orgasm. edited by mod. (When I was young I could sleep on concrete, but my old bones are too sensitive.) Then I took some more belts, and, inspired by some reading I did last night about Shibari, I made a two halter outfit, one around my breasts and the other a sort of thong, and took my first sexy pictures. Not too bad looking for an old lady. Saggy ass, saggy tits, saggy stomach, but hey, I’m over 70. I have a right to sag a little. (Although I wish I was fit like @Oldman.) (I hope it’s ok to say that - I wouldn’t want to break any forum rules.) And it made me feel very sexy, seeing myself in that getup. Then I settled down, still wearing the two halter outfit, to actually masturbate, edged myself through two Dipsea stories and used the third one to cum. Feeling good now, although I can feel the tickle starting up again inside, so I guess I’ll masturbate at least one more time tonight. (And I apologize if this is too detailed or explicit. I’m just a newbie, still figuring out how to participate. And I like to talk - well, in this case write - so I tend to go on.)
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Last night as soon as I got home from work, I was wearing sexy underwear that was making me feel horny all day, I hadn’t done this for ages I just got my wand out and placed it on my lap ontop of my underwear until I got that intense orgasm. Nothing beats a intense orgsam in your underwear.
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Last night, really needed the release so went all out & simultaneously used a plug, Lush3 for g-spot & wand for clitoral… fuuuuuck.
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Last night. I had a LH stroker to test so I was given special dispensation to have an orgasm. She watched for a while then joined in with her bullet. She managed to synchronise her orgasm with mine.
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A few nights ago. I may have ‘borrowed’ my wife’s dildo and had a session of solo anal. Not done it in a while so really enjoyed myself.
I then used a vibrator to orgasm which felt incredible
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