I saw the topic about married men and I was intrigued so asked my hubby where he currently did most of his wanking when he was alone?
He was also very interested to know where I did most of my masturbating so I thought it would also be good for the wives and girlfriends to answer. I work from home so most of the time I masturbate during the day as I like my alone time to be alone. This also gives me plenty of time to use my toys without worrying I only have a few minutes to get the job done.
Well I am currently on mat leave and it's half term so don't have a minute's piece and quiet or time to myself! I usually do it before going to bed when the OH is getting ready for bed so he has a nice surprise to walk in on! He loves to watch and it turns me on massively the thought of him catching me! 😉
I'm home alone everyday so I can do it wherever I like !
My bed is favourite place if I want a long session. My toys are handy and I can get nice and comfy. The bath or shower is also pretty good...or the garden, or wherever the mood takes me really. The public loos are quite handy if I'm in town and feel the need xx
Generally in bed as toys and lube are close at hand but also in the bathroom .
Sometimes in bed but mostly on the couch 
I start in bed and always finish on the floor by the bed as in my head there's something quite wild about getting down on floor and do it. I also like to be alone in the house, so I can get lost in the moment, if I'm desperate and have to do when family is around, it doesn't feel the same, it's more about my head being able to shut everhting else out. Right now with the school holidays and some family from abroad around, I haven't got a minute of privacy so I'm climbing up the walls with despair, by Monday when everyone will be gone I plan to have a nice, long session, can't wait.
I find this thread extremely informative - thank you for your willingness to share!
This answer wins!lace21 wrote:
Well I am currently on mat leave and it's half term so don't have a minute's piece and quiet or time to myself! I usually do it before going to bed when the OH is getting ready for bed so he has a nice surprise to walk in on! He loves to watch and it turns me on massively the thought of him catching me! 😉
Bedroom for my wife. Her toys are there plus open and privacy. Sometimes in the bath but only occasionally.
These days, just my bed. When I was more able bodied, I loved to do it anywhere in the house.
It's great to masturbate and have my partner(s) walk in on me.
normally in bed whe the OH is working nights, my toys are up there and its easier when my daughter is asleep x
Pretty much always in bed these days, toys and lube all close to hand and a tv if I fancy a bit of porn. If I'm in a hurry or not alone in the house a quick go in the shower is always a good option.
My preference is on the bed after a good hot shower or bath, if hubbie is lucky I would invite him to watch but no touching. Drives him mad
Normally in bed when hubby at work/ downstairs or even very quietly when his sleeping next to me lol.
Or in the shower
Very interesting thread im not even sure if mine does.But i like to think she does.
Why are we kept in the dark when we are young with this taboo area? As a male, all I knew about girls was what my mates told me or what you see in The Sun and crap like that. Now in my early 60's, I understand women (or people, as they are also know by other than Sun readers).
I can't help thinking that some other countries do it better and more inclusively by telling young guys that girls actually have feelings as well as their other assets.
And, have you noticed how our awaful attitude is reinforced byt he likes of the Sun, Mirror, Star etc (no, I don't read them). Whenever they have a story about rape or abuse, in the adjacent article, or on the next page, is always a picture of a stunning, scantily clad young woman. You see, mnen are carnal, and when reading about what some poor girl has been through, they need somethign to help them visualise it too. Comes in handy when the other half needs a bit and he has something to think about.
All a bit heavy, sorry.
with toddlers at home all day, literally no where... I can't even use the bathroom in peace 😭 in fact I can't even sneak out without them knowing.
and then i usually shower / bath whilst the dinner is cooking as soon as hubby is home to watch the kids ( hairdryer wakes them once in bed ) but during my 5 mins along i can guarantee you my eldest needs a poo... every single time without a fail ! 😐😐😐 so that's a no go too..
usually in bed but sometimes on couch when having lovely phone chats xx
I love giving myself a treat in the tub, shower, in bed, on the couch..sometimes I'll pull out a mat or bean bag chair and stay close to the floor. It depends on when the mood strikes, mostly.
We also have a large walk in closet with plenty of leg room so I can enjoy things in there without having to move all my toys in any direction. I have a low bench there too so its pretty comfy.
Same here. Lol..wildflower wrote:
Generally in bed as toys and lube are close at hand but also in the bathroom .