Who buys the toys in your relationship

We've usually bought our toys together, though I did used to work in Ann Summers so occasionally bought the odd one home using the staff discount or that I'd won in sales competitions. They weren't often well received so after I left there I've not done it since.

I have been thinking about surprising her with an order from here but can't make up my mind, not sure if she'll love it or hate it and I'll be back in mantanamo bay again or not.

Well, my relationship is me and my hand at the moment.

But righty can't stop himself, buying things! And I just have to sit back and let him ;)

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I usually buy the toys, but I will ask the OH his opinion. He usually always says just get it. I like to take my time reading reviews to make sure it's a good toy, in fact I really enjoy reading other people's experience's using sex toys.

I think I might have an addiction to buying sex toys ect from Lovehoney lol is there anywhere I can get help? 😜

i buy them using mr's card ;)

Me... since he isnt really into it. He lets me do what I want but all toys are mine as he has no interest (at least thus far). He just doesnt get as horny as me and when he does hes happy with me or his hand haha

Me, but when my partner has the money he sometimes treats me :)

I choose things show hubby and he then says if we have the money for it then I order it.

Always me. Sometimes he will give me the cash back if it's a gift, but puchases go through my account.

Funny story, actually. I bought a toy in a sex shop in Amsterdam and the woman at the till said it was rude to let the "lady" buy the toy. A true gentleman should offer to pay for it or take it to the till. I don't know how true that is, but it made me laugh because I always buy my stuff. It doesn't bother me at all and I don't get shy or embarrassed about it. It's just like buying a pair of shoes to me now...well... like shoes that I'll have sex with later, I guess...

We both do but mostly Mrs. Have not been buying toys from LH for sometimes due to high shipping cost.

We generally choose them together.

I've always chosen then and bought them myself in a relationship and obviously when not...

We both do. My wife got me the strap on and I got her the rabbit. It’s usually me who buys her the sexy lingerie. 😂

Me, unless it's birthday lingerie.

During my menopausal lull we agreed that I would let him know if I was up for any action rather than him trying to initiate and being turned down half the time (less stress than me feeling pressured and him feeling rejected) - we seem to have stayed with the pattern of me initiating (a lot more often though, these days!) although lots of mutual fflirting goes on in the lead up.

I buy the toys / lingerie I like and present the options for that night's entertainment... In terms of who pays, all our finances are joint. We joke that he earns it and I spend it.

Me...think I've bought all of ours...even the lube etc

Usually me. Husband did encourage me by buying a few bodystockings that he wanted me to wear back when I first joined, but we always discuss the bigger purchases together before I buy them.

I do...I think the husband gets embarrassed, I don’t know why? It’s only sex!

I’ve always bought the toys! My boyfriend loves that I have an overflowing toy bag (takes up the entirety of the bottom of my wardrobe... it’s a BIG bag haha) I’d be interested to see what toy he’d buy for me but I don’t think he ever will as I already have a bit of everything. When it comes to underwear, however... I’d love for him to surprise me!

We do shopping together

I'm the one that usually makes the purchase, but before anything is bought we will discuss some things due to budget. Like "Hey honey, want to try a new dildo, we have a little extra" or "This lingerie looks cute, do you mind if I get it? Do you want a matching one :P". She always says no to the last bit, but I still have to ask.