Who is a spanker and who receives the spanking

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I love being a dom in the bedroom and my husband loves receiving a spanking
Just wanted to know which re you - and which way do you prefer - i generally put the naughty boy over my knee - or if he is very naughty across the table

Let me know good spanker

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I’m definitely the sub in our relationship. I love a good hard strikes across my ass cheeks, leaving red raw, stinging and throbbing. Wether it be with bondage or his bare hands, I love it :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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i prefer to use a paddle but do enjoy bare hands as well to finish off with

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I’m the spankee, I love when he uses his belt everywhere but my fav is when he slaps my boobs with his hands. I like the skin contact :black_heart:

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So I would have to say I loved to be spanked either with hands or paddle

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We use a paddle, crop and hands, both of us give and receive depending on the mood at the time

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Usually I (the male) will do the spanking and the OH will receive, she sometimes spanks me but I have a very low pain threshold, and we mostly just use hand , even though we do own a paddle and whips

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I would rather be the one to do the spanking, i love to give my husband a good spanking across his backside with our paddle.

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I (male) love being spanked by my partner (female). Usually on all 4’s with a riding crop or flogger. We do switch though, she has a lower pain threshold than me so I tend fo use my hand with her across my knee. Love the feeling of my hand striking her soft bottom

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We aren’t dom/sub, although we do role-play it sometimes. At times, we both spank each other, although I get spanked much much more than he does (and that’s the way I like it).

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I personally switch but OH prefers to sub - so 99% of the time she is on the receiving end. I do like to experiment with different impact toys.

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I’m so there - I feel it’s a great turn on going the spanking but my husband gets annoyed if I tell him his bottom is very red and I go to stop - he says he loves the sting….

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I love being the spank we but every now and then I get a good smack on the bum and it turns me on instantly.

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I usually get the spanking but I love being the spanker as well. B)

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I’m the spanker, my lovely OH is the spankee. I love causing a red glow across her bottom.
Thinking about it, I’m realising that it’s been a while.
Maybe that should be on the list for this weekend.

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OH can’t resist my ass when it’s presented to him. I’m not vert dominant but I can switch now and again…. But in everyday life we definitely switch and sneak a slap here and there. Usually in public, always at home :tipping_hand_woman:

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Hopefully it’s me being spanked but I don’t mind giving a little tap with one of my whips now and then but I think I’m more of a sub naturally these days.

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We both like a spanking probably her more than me her favourite is on all fours legs spread and me flogging her pussy but she also loves a bare hand on her ass as well as her pussy

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Hubby is the spanker, I love being the spankee and presenting my bare arse to him so he can spank it, whether its with his hand or with one of our many spanking implements, love it when my cheeks are red, hot and glowing.

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I’m the spanner and she loves it. More often than not I use a paddle although we have a couple of whips too. Very rarely across my knee as I just can’t get a good swing. Generally she be on all four or standing, bent with hands against the wall or over a table.

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