@justin.j im the same I get turned on when spanking - I recommend a cane as it’s more intense but a paddle makes a great sound
With my husband he wears knickers (mainly wet look) so when I start to spank it makes a great sound and I can really hit hard as the knickers partly protect his bum - after some time I pull them down so he feels the sting
@batjamboree When we fight.plzy for some reason i getbreallybturned on and extreme wet I can fully understand your sit3 when spanking or being spanked
That is great advice @batjamboree and I will have to try that. I love wearing panties and have a few pair, but never thought of the idea of starting my spankings with them on and then her pulling them down. I am sure my rear would be turning a shade of red, but hidden by my panties. Then she would pull them down and see what she’s done. Would probably turn her on even more!
Also, going to have to try a cane! The amount of pre cum that flows out of me when she uses the crop on my balls is insane. That sharp, intense pain is overwhelming and so incredible. To have that sharp, intense pain on my rear sounds amazing! Plus, I bet it would cause more yelps of pain from me and an even more tears in my eyes which would just push her to new heights seeing and hearing me.
@justin.j. I would love to play / spank the calls of my husband but he is sensitive to heavy play on them - i. do tie them up and split the balls but cannot do more - that i enjoy spanking the underside of the penis … 
@batjamboree have you tried impact play with them untied? I ask as my wife starts with mine loose and untied. She will lightly smack, then work toward truly hitting them, and then grab the crop. After the warm up her way of tying them is to grab a silicone ring (c0ck ring), but only around my sack. It brings the intensity level up exponentially. I used to not be able to handle the pain when they were like that and have grown to love the intensity. The pain is far worse for me when they are tied, on display for her as she calls it, when she hits them or uses the crop.
Not been spanked for ages may have to be a little bit naughty
@carzy - you need to up your game and be very naughty- I suggest take and wear her knickers- I’m sure you will be over her knee with a stinging red bottom before you know it…
Your a very naughty lady
@batjamboree I think i am becoming addicted to walking around with my strapon so.powerful
Mrs W here …
@AWB1955 … it is isn’t it? I get to use it when with Mr W and when with Pen (unless she won’t let me) … Mr W loves it when he sees me with it on…
@Wurger @AWB1955 I totally love browsing with my husband and today bought 5 new dildos - 4 from lovehoney - I wanted a change from the penis looking - cannot wait for them to arrive - I have uploaded a picture into the toy box section - not there yet as it’s awaiting approval
Mrs W here …
@batjamboree @AWB1955 … Yes I love browsing with Mr W … but 5 new dildos!!! Blimey, Mr W would be looking for the other 4 girls 
Ooooooo a different looking ones, can’t wait for the photo… 
@batjamboree omg someone is a very lucky.lady cant wait to see those bad boys you will.have to fill us in pardon the pun on how good they are
My wife sleeps with a 6" soft packer (replica penis) in her men’s pants every night.
It started when she would keep the strap-on dildo on overnight after she’d pegged me.
I loved the idea of feeling a penis instead of a vagina when I cuddled her and she enjoyed the feeling of empowerment so, mostly for her comfort, we bought the soft packer.
She wears it when we go out some times too.
Now that’s an idea I had not thought of
I am definitely the Spanker in our relationship, although it is nice to get spanked too.
Took your idea on and I have just gotten out of the bath dried off and put on a pair of OH knickers nice black thong it’s one of her favourites so when I go downstairs I may just have to flash my ass at her for her to see then turn around and flash the front think that should do the trick.Trouble is if she is still horny from her solo playtime this afternoon it may well end up her asking me to give her either a spanking or use the digger on her pussy and this normally has the effect of one of us getting a toy or cock in there are
@carzy - if this was my husband it would definitely be a spanking - he can wear my used knickers but not my new and second- I don’t allow him to wear black …
Flashed OH front and ass she then said did I say you could wear them no I didn’t so my dear you are getting spanked later so safe to say it worked let’s see where it goes from there
Spanked for deffo - I would face sit or grab and spank the penis