Whatever you want to share - personally I love to dominate and love pegging - especially good with a paddle
Sure. Iāll go for some of the general and obvious kink terms as more detail would probably need an article:
Anal play, Anilingus, Bondage (including really restrictive), Dominance, Gagging (in particular FFāing), Humiliation (mild), Impact play (moderate), Objectification (love this), Public sex, Role play, Voyeurism.
Theyāre the main ones I can think of right now. All of these from the Dom perspective of giving, and not receiving.
I recently got an o mouth ring for when Iām submissive and I love this as I love it when he mouth f****s me
Love all your things - you should start a list on a few
But 80% of the time Iām dominant but every so often do enjoy being a subā¦
I myself love to be on the receiving end of impact play! Toys like paddles and crops are so much fun to bring to the bedroom (or wherever your atā) Nothing beats hand on skin contact for me!! Raw, hot red marks and some light bruising is a must for me.
And donāt forget about the aftercareā
Sub and dom dynamics are amazing. So many people grow up thinking that theyāre weird for having these thoughts and urges, then realise itās pretty normal
There is something really primitive, raw and connecting with skin on skin. But options are never a bad thing
I can be both but definitely prefer to be spanked by my wife she lives using the flogger but when I spank her I just prefer my hand.
I am technically a switch which sometimes is not well regarded within the BDsm community but it works for me and my OH.
@be3169 - I know what you mean - you should be one or the other - and Iām 90% dom - but every so often you need to feel a firm spank across your bottom and be told off
@batjamboree youāre like the LH house dom!
Iām predominantly sub, but we have a very playful relationship so I get away with spanking hubby sometimes lol. If he bends over in front of me for example, Iāll deliver a swat on his rear and remind him that āgood boys bend at the kneeā, to which he, messing around, will say āthankyou Mommy!ā . So yeah, weāre both spankers and spankees, but he spanks me because heās really my Dom and I spank him because I like to live dangerously lol.
Weāve only recently begun impact play so weāre still working out what we like.
She doesnāt spank me but she uses a cane, crop, paddle, strap or bullwhip on me as the fancy takes her.
I enjoy the pain of the impacts immensely but I also love to carry the marks and bruises she makes on me.
As soon as the bruises fade we make some new ones.
If Iām doing chores and he spanks me. I donāt like it, he does it to wind me up. But spank me all he wants in the bedroom.
Itās good you work together @rockstar - I hope she finds something easy to use on you - may be an idea to use the back of the hairbrush- nice to hold and good spank
Well, you can see his fingers on my buttocks from time to time or the nice varm, rogue color, mostly when he thinks that I have deserved it. That is what I like
I receives the spanking
@sofiedk72 - do you ever spank him or are you the one to be spanked
@batjamboree I am the one who gets spanked
Iām the one generally spanking my husband but occasionally I like to go over the knee for a hand spankingā¦