Not afraid of them in any way, they’re not a replacement but an addition. I’ve listened to what my OH enjoys and bought toys to suit.
I don’t think a lot of men care honestly. I actually want to try more and more for both or us. It makes the relationship better all around
Similar story and I wasn’t afraid of them back then but was quite intrigued by them, and as a young guy assumed it was ‘older ladies’ and bored housewives that used them or needed to use them!
My girlfriend (now wife) brought it up back then and said she had thought about trying a vibrator and what did I think. The standard thing back then in early 2000’s was a rampant rabbit and we got her one. Of course she loved it and watching her using it became my favorite thing. She has tried various since including dildo’s, remote vibes and her absolute favorite thing in the whole world, her Hitachi Magic Wand!
I’ve always been turned on by ladies with sex toys, it’s never been an issue for me. Maybe it’s makes other guys insecure
I’ve never had a man who was afraid of sex toys. They like using them on me and happily surprise me with new ones.