Why doesn't anyone make wiggling/curling prostate toys in the western market?

None of the big brands make the moving prostate toys. They’re either all non moving, or like anaeros which move by inner butt muscles. And loads of vibration toys which dont work for me. It just numbs me.

I have bought 2 toys from Chinese sites which I feel forced to use which both have the wiggling/curling feature amwhich hits the pspot. I experienced a full super 0 with one after a month of trying.

I dibt like using these Chinese factory toys because I dont know if the silicone is skin safe and the battery inbit is safe to use. I suspect the battery is cheapest lithium ion that might have a fire risk.

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Have you tried the Nexus toys..

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/p/nexus-thrust-vibrating-thrusting-prostate-massager/a48334g86142.html

Lovehoney doesn’t seem to sell all of them, but I have a few and find they totally hit the spot.

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Oh yeah, I’ve come across those.

The thrusting is straight up and down, what worked for me are toys with the ‘come here” curling motion. And the dagger style design means you cant sit or recline on it. The toy would need to be used lying down or standing/bending forward

Not sure why they designed it like that. I suppose they needed it to be straight for the thrusting mechanism.

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Have you added your suggestion to the Pander to me! .. PRODUCTS ONLY topic @DefinatelyBi?

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Have a look at the Lelo Loki Wave. The tip waves back and forth in a stroking motion

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they do the “Nexus Thrust Prostate Edition“ thats the one i have but yea its up and down..

the “Nexus SIMUL8 Stroker Edition“ does have a ball that rubs the prostate that might hit the spot for you but i dont have that so cant comment.

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Hi @DefinatelyBi

Would any of these be suitable?

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/p/nexus-revo-stealth-remote-control-rotating-silicone-prostate-massager/a42554g76622.html

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/p/lovehoney-high-roller-remote-control-rotating-prostate-massager/a42638g76716.html

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/prostate-massagers/p/nexus-revo-stealth-app-controlled-rotating-prostate-massager/a49891g87973.html

Do you have personal experience on this? The reviews on this arent great, 3.2 on the rainforest site with 2 people complaining it broke shortly after using.

I much prefer recommendation on the subreddit for prostateplay and one of the issues with this product is you need to hold the base still. if the base isnt held still then the waves dont happen inside, the waves happen on the handle. WHich I can totally see happening.

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Thanks for the recommendations i’ll look into them. I would have liked to see a more extensive video on them especially your own product showing the different speeds on the movements. The revo doesnt show any movement on their video and the lovehoney one is very slow.

Slow massage is fine to get the prostate ready, but when the prostate is ready it needs much faster movement to keep the climbing up the arousal ladder to get a p-spot orgasm.

Also for prostate massages its handy to have a diagram with the length and width/circumference of the widest point. We can easily compare the dimensions with out existing toys to work out if it will do the job.

I must admit there are an awful lot of vibration type prostate toys on the market, but for me vibrating kills satisfaction. Any thrusting or moving toys, your right seem to come overseas markets. Ive never tried one, but keen to one day

I think its cheaper and more reliable to make vibrating toys, if you look at the reviews of these handheld thrusting/moving toys, you will see a lot of reports of failures. at the end of the day they will be doing movements using a motor and gears and the gears will get worn down at some point. The big brands probably dont want to roll these out and deal with the pr headache of selling toys that break after a few uses - which happens with some people. the spintor muscles can squueze to toys and stop them from moving which means the gears take a beating as the motor and your spinctor and putting opposing force on them.

I tend not to clamp onto the toys too much to avoid burning them out.

i have vibrating featues on the moving toys I use and i use the vibrations very sparingly, 30 seconds on during some moments while using the moving feature and it can enhance the stimulation but you gotto turn it off before you numb yourself.

Though i have heard a lot of good things about the lovesense edge 2. it is a vibrating toy and supposedly it is a stronger vibration than others which creates a more of a rumbling/moving effect than others. i read someone used it successfully on very slow setting, slow vibration turn into moving sensations. the biggest benefit of that is you can use supposedly pairing with another user online who will control the vibration speeds and intensiity (Im guess this is just a script - not a real human on the other end). it supports a sort of api open access which can pair it with other software. The guy i read on reddit used it by pairing it with porn where you can sync the vibrations with pegging thrusts which really immerses you into the scene.

some guys just put it on and play computer games and the game rumble affect also goes into the prostate. can also do it with music too.

i am so close to pulling the trigger on it. but the fact that is a vibration toy just gives me pause for thoguth. I was told it can work if you dial down the vibrations to the lowest setting. but i have no personal experience with it so i cant personally vouch for it.

i had a second look at this, the video review sells it to me. i dont like the dagger design for it, but the movement is really good

I have two of the units @Lovehoney_Brenna suggested , they are somewhat OK . I did buy a cheap one from across the Pacific , a thrusting , vibrating and warming unit . Not bad . Here is my problem with ALL of the prostrate massagers , no matter how much I spent on them . They do not like to stay in place , requiring a hand to keep them where they will do any good .
I have mentioned in multiple threads on my favorite way to massage my prostrate by myself . A somewhat firmer suction dildo mounted to a vertical surface at the correct height to mount while standing . Think of it as anal and leg exercise . It took a bit of experimenting to find how much thrusting and gyrating to really milk myself well . Of note , when engaging in a long session , it would be advisable to re apply lube as needed . Some of my favorite videos are of this exercise . Camera on the floor maybe a foot and a half from my feet aimed up to catch the action . Watching myself being pegged without anybody else in my lace stockings and garter belt looks erotic . Give it a try ! On prostrate massagers I have spent more money than I have bought motorcycles for . Much cheaper and 90% more effective .

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I have had a Loki wave for several years now. Can’t say I use it too often as I find it and toys similar to it just don’t provide enough stimulation for me. It can feel good to have this toy in my ass while wanking with vibrations on my cock, however the Loki alone is meh. I just doesn’t do it for me and the stroking motion just doesn’t provide much stimulation for me. Lelo toys do have a warranty however they are expensive.

Over the years I have learned that I need firm stimulation on my prostate using toys such as a dildo or njoy wand to really get an orgasmic response.