Sorry if this is too personal, but I recently bought my girlfriend a womanizer and expected it to make her squirt and she says she feels she is about to but she has only cummed so far but not full squirt?
Nothing is guaranteed to make anyone squirt. Has she squirted before? If not, it may be that she needs to either try not to think about it so she lets go or actively push to release the fluid. If she has, it may just be about getting her body used to a new sensation
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She tells me she has squirted once before, which makes me really want it to happen with us else I feel like Iām not the best she has had! 
Nooooo @Tombrough donāt put yourself through that or her eitherā¦or it will never happen.
As to being āthe bestā making someone squirt isnāt the gold medal.
Other things in a relationship are much higher up than that.
(And yes I do squirt)
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What @CurvyJilly said.
Plus the more you try to make it happen, the less likely it will. Just focus on the pleasure
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As @CurvyJilly and @Calie have said, focus on enjoying the journey you both go on, rather than the end result.
It can be hard not getting into comparisons and such like, but what you have with your girlfriend is unique, itās about your connection with each other and the enjoyment that comes from it.
My OH didnāt squirt before we met, but she does now, but cannot by herself with toys.
She enjoys it when it happens, but it is not as intense for her as other orgasms - she is very much take it or leave it.
I thought it would be the best experience sheās ever had, and simply not so for her!
I guess what Iām trying to say is that for me, I want to give her the best experience possible - my ego took over wanting to prove a point of ālook how good I amā and lost sight of my OHās actual experience. Reality was it was not everything for her that I wanted it to be, but the only one disappointed was me.
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My wife has only squirted once ever, and it was with the Womanizer, but sheās shared that she didnāt care for it much. It was connected to an orgasm when she was restrained and I was teasing for a long time and she said she felt like she just got too worn out to hold it back. She loves to cum with the Womanizer otherwise. It was very hot for me when she squirted, made me feel so accomplished, but like everyone else said, putting pressure on her to squirt is never gonna go in your favor.
How does your partner feel about squirting? Does she like it, or is it just something thatās happened? Does she like the Womanizer otherwise?
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Agree with earlier comments do not put to much pressure on partner or expectations otherwise will never happen. Just go with the flow and hopefully the flow will follow!
OH does not squirt with play, toys, intercourse etc every time but when she does it is a nice surprise for us both. If she doesnāt it doesnāt mean that you or her are doing anything wrong.
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I only squirt during g spot stimulation, as the womaniser is for the clit it never works on me.
Iāve tried several g spot toys too, but nothing beats the fingers of my OH, every time and he loves getting soaked.
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@CurvyJilly great comments and so true 
@Tombrough so many squirting topics on this forum so take a look and get some tips.
Main issue is not to make your partner feel pressurised and if its going to happen it will, if not donāt get hung up over it. If it does happen it will be when you least expect making it an amazing surprise for you both.
Good luck
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Thank you so much everyone for your replies.
I think she puts more pressure on herself as she wants to squirt again. I maybe need to concentrate on relaxing her.
And possibly try g spot stimulation dildo and see what works best. Would love her to soak me
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My wife is 69 years old and has just started squirting this last year. It only happens occasionally and the circumstances are not predictable or reproduceable.
We both regard it as an unexpected bonus and it isnāt something we work towards or crave. I certainly donāt feel inadequate if it doesnāt happen and she is more than happy with all the orgasms she has, squirting or not.
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We have tried all sorts of toys around the g-spot, none have been successful for my OH - only thing that tends to work is a good amount of build up and the come hither with fingers.
Best for her to be well hydrated, and of course relaxed. And I know its been mentioned before, but donāt obsess over it - the mind is a powerful tool when it comes to this stuff.
It is also very individual, so my OH needs direct g-spot pressure in a certain way after plenty of clit attention, other ladies may be just clit stimulation or whatever.
You mentioned it has happened for her once before, and also the comparing part (feels like Iām not the best she had). I wonder if you have talked with her about the stimulation that resulted in her squirting that time? That may help in terms of what worked before, if you can have that conversation without feeling self-critical may give you some direction.
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We had sex this morning and she told me she had cummed and then after I while I cummed in her and when we had finished she said she was on the verge of squirting from penetration
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Iāve never managed to squirt, not for lack of trying! I tried too hard, then stopped trying, never quite got there. Not that Iām worried, if itās going to happen it will! She may have managed it before but struggle to do it again? Who knows. But donāt take it personally! It may happen when you least expect it 
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Still havenāt squirted, but seriously, my womanizer gives me the most intense orgasms 
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I canāt make my missus squirt with my penis during sex but she did soak the bed when I put loveHoneyās mega 2" penis sleeve on howeverā¦
I know every woman is different but the way I make my missus squirt is (this method has worked previously too)ā¦when giving her oral (preferably after she orgasms) putting my middle finger and ring finger in, palm facing up on over her vaginaā¦then go up and down hitting her G spot quite roughly while using my palm to stimulate the outsideā¦
Gives her mega intense orgasms, she squirts multiple times this way.
My missus has the same sensation as your missus with the āfeels like she wants to but canātā
But by doing that above, she has no control over it and letās go.
Making her squirt does not make you a womans number 1 lover, so donāt beat yourself up over it and never compare yourself to others dudeā¦
My advice:
Donāt focus solely on trying to make her squirt, focus on her pleasure and get her highly aroused thenā¦
Experiment trying different techniques, look through the squirting threadā¦
Youāll come across what works for her eventually.
Or try that aboveā¦
Good luck
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I have owned 4 Womanizer toys and none have made me squirt
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This past year Iāve started to squirt, and the first time I did is with my womanizer pro40, and itās when hubby was using it on me and I squirted on his face 
that and the premium is my best toys by far. They give me the most intense orgasmās ever 
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I regularly make the oh squirt, usually with my fingers or a toy, sex I make her cum constantly and she loves it, we both do, itās always about being relaxed and chilled, no pressure, go with the flow!
Usually when sheās dressed up is my favourite