Would you and your partner go on a nudist beach

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It’s interesting that you say naturism is in itself very sexy because yes, I absolutely agree with you. Although we weren’t supposed to/allowed to be sexy at the swim, that doessn’t mean to say that it didn’t happen, or that it wasn’t felt - I was attracted to all kinds of people while swimming and talking to them with no clothes on!

However, I am also aware of the “perverts” problem, and I do remember particularly a couple that used to rock up regularly at swim that, to be totally honest with you, weren’t being particularly discreet about things. There’s being liberated, and then there’s being obscene and disrespectful at the expense of everyone else.

I do back your sentiment that these places shouldn’t be sex-free (in fact, I think if they weren’t then iId probably be more regular too!). However, there needs to be some rules in place about respect, and that not everyone is there for the purposes of sex. Sex as you say is a part of nature, but so is socialising.

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It is a very liberating experience and you get a wonderful all over tan. My wife and I have been enjoying the benefits of nudist beaches in the Canaries for a number of years. Thoroughly recommended.

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We’re all nudist beach virgins at some point. And it’s funny how we share similar view points on this topic.
Will I get an erection?
People will look at my flabby bits.
People will see my stretch marks
I’m shy
I have a small willy
The list goes on.
Meanwhile, people miss out.
Shame, as most of the above is unfounded!
It’s a beach, not a sex club…

The atmosphere isn’t sexual, it’s just relaxed.

Why?
Because you look around you, and see hundreds of people, old, young, big, small, big Willie’s, small Willie’s (that probably change during sex, but who would know lol) saggy tits, big tits, pert tits… U get the idea.

You see a rainbow of flavours that we all come in, but they all have one thing in common.

Theyve let go, relaxed and stop caring about magazine photo shop unreal bs that created your hang up in the first place!

Half of the time you forget your naked!

No social class, your all naked and the same!

The first time u try it, your heart will be in your chest, 10000bpm, everyone on the beach, I mean EVERYONE knows it’s your first time, will stare and will be talking about you lol

Of course, a few minutes later, you’ll realise, no one gives a F**k & your no different to anyone else, welcome to the club!

There are quite a few places across spain - tenerife, Greece etc that have private naturist terraces alongside normal pools, that you can dip into and try it.
Don’t like it, just go back to the main area, maybe try again later.

We started off like this, and now we go to vera playa club hotel in Almeria.
The hotel is totally nude, even reception.
As is the surrounding streets and beach.

First time we’ve been back to the same place - why, cos it’s just relaxing shangri-la!

No clothes, no stress, all over tan, and friendly people who are as chilled as you.

Yes, there are the odd idiots that will stare, usually larger older men, probably single etc.
A firm stare back usually puts them off.

Your gonna get this in any walk of life tho, and it shouldn’t put you off doing stuff you want to.

Your not perfect, nor is he, nor is she nor am I
But that’s the true beauty of naturism, seeing we’re all different, and actually we are all perfect in our own way, just gotta find that in yourself, not on the cover of a photo shop magazine.

Take that leap, I promise you won’t regret it

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Welcome back @MrGoodGuy

Fantastic informative post.

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It’s a great leveller to realise that nobody is perfect, we all have flaws, scars, stretch marks, saggy bits, fat bits, bony bits etc.
Some may have “work” done, but it won’t last. So better to realise we are all perfectly imperfect and it’s those imperfections that make us unique and worth loving.

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But in some ways we are perfect - to someone.

Love your curves and all your edges, all your perfect imperfections.

Some of the things about my wife she doesn’t like, are what I found attractive about her when we first met.

We ASSUME it’s a horrible bit, and because we don’t like it, others won’t either.

But to the next person, it might be super sexy.

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An excellent point often missed when discussing nudist/ naturist lifestyles.

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We would love to and have talked about … but we are thinking :thinking: when are children are grown up and flown the nest :empty_nest:. Both have the desire though to walk freely and feel the warmth on our bodies.

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Don’t leave it too long, dreams can often be lost in the ether of time

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I’d happily go to a nude beach but I suspect my wife wouldn’t neither of us are “body beautiful” types and my wife is very conscious of her size. I suspect she would also think I was going to look at hot naked women

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Don’t pay any attention to the nudist beach voyeur type porn videos. You will find in real life that most on the nudie beach are older with lots of lumps and bumps. They are just being confident and free. My suggestion is to start with a clothing optional beach like I did. If you want to take your swim wear off after being there for a bit you can. No pressure…

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The hardest bit is taking your clothes off first time, then even harder is actually leaving the sanctuary of your sunbed.

The people u see in naturist area are ALL different, big small, little chipolata sausages, huge Shlongs, jelly bits, firm bits, saggy tits, some on women too!

But they all have something in common

They don’t give a fk, they realise we’re not all catwalk models, they’re all relaxed, and they’re all happy

The scary bit is in your head, it’s no where else

I agree that many places abroad have naturist terraces, clothing optional areas and beaches, and no one knows u

Go topless maybe or take the plunge and just go for it, and the shocker when you do, that no one looks or cares, your another face that they don’t know if it’s your first time or your 1000th

Feel the fear and do it anyway

And that fear is actually excitement mostly.

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Go for it ASAP. You will not regret it.

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I would love to do this, i am happy naked and feel id be more confident on a nudist beach rather than around a pool in a swimsuit, im more self conscious in clothing.

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Simply clothesfree. Rarely do you see a guy with a boner.

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If your wife went to any naturist venue (beach or resort) she would soon realise that hardly anybody else’s body is perfect. For the same reason, she would also realise you aren’t there to be a voyeur. It’s all about not over-thinking it, and doing it.

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Go for it.

But it doesn’t have to be a nudist beach. It’s about much more than sitting on a beach. Check out holidays at naturist resorts where you can be naked all day.

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We’ll be visiting one of our favourite naturist beaches next week and can’t wait…

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I hope its abroad (not the UK) @walsh111 still not warm enough here.

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@steve19 Agreed …when will our summer finally arrive…off to Spain