It’s interesting that you say naturism is in itself very sexy because yes, I absolutely agree with you. Although we weren’t supposed to/allowed to be sexy at the swim, that doessn’t mean to say that it didn’t happen, or that it wasn’t felt - I was attracted to all kinds of people while swimming and talking to them with no clothes on!
However, I am also aware of the “perverts” problem, and I do remember particularly a couple that used to rock up regularly at swim that, to be totally honest with you, weren’t being particularly discreet about things. There’s being liberated, and then there’s being obscene and disrespectful at the expense of everyone else.
I do back your sentiment that these places shouldn’t be sex-free (in fact, I think if they weren’t then iId probably be more regular too!). However, there needs to be some rules in place about respect, and that not everyone is there for the purposes of sex. Sex as you say is a part of nature, but so is socialising.
It is a very liberating experience and you get a wonderful all over tan. My wife and I have been enjoying the benefits of nudist beaches in the Canaries for a number of years. Thoroughly recommended.
It’s a great leveller to realise that nobody is perfect, we all have flaws, scars, stretch marks, saggy bits, fat bits, bony bits etc.
Some may have “work” done, but it won’t last. So better to realise we are all perfectly imperfect and it’s those imperfections that make us unique and worth loving.
We would love to and have talked about … but we are thinking when are children are grown up and flown the nest . Both have the desire though to walk freely and feel the warmth on our bodies.
I’d happily go to a nude beach but I suspect my wife wouldn’t neither of us are “body beautiful” types and my wife is very conscious of her size. I suspect she would also think I was going to look at hot naked women
Don’t pay any attention to the nudist beach voyeur type porn videos. You will find in real life that most on the nudie beach are older with lots of lumps and bumps. They are just being confident and free. My suggestion is to start with a clothing optional beach like I did. If you want to take your swim wear off after being there for a bit you can. No pressure…
I would love to do this, i am happy naked and feel id be more confident on a nudist beach rather than around a pool in a swimsuit, im more self conscious in clothing.
If your wife went to any naturist venue (beach or resort) she would soon realise that hardly anybody else’s body is perfect. For the same reason, she would also realise you aren’t there to be a voyeur. It’s all about not over-thinking it, and doing it.
But it doesn’t have to be a nudist beach. It’s about much more than sitting on a beach. Check out holidays at naturist resorts where you can be naked all day.
Think i seen Clover Spa on 4 in a bed? The guy that ran/runs it seemed so lovely and it got great reviews, he spoke so well about naturism as obviously people’s minds go straight to the gutter, when for most its about feeling free so he made sure to correct them.
when are children are grown up and flown the nest 
. Both have the desire though to walk freely and feel the warmth on our bodies.