My first experience was ok; but I remember it for all the wrong reasons!
The lady in question took my hand, led me upstairs and it was “this is really happening”
The sex was ok and I was lying with her afterwards.
She also had a dog. This particular dog had instantly taken a dislike to me as soon as I started seeing her. So this particular night after lying there feeling content on a lovely sexual comedown it decided to enter the bedroom and take a chunk out of my ankle which was overhanging the bed!
To make matters worse I was so caught up in the moment I went to the bathroom to remove my durex. I know you shouldn’t but I aimed and attempted to put down the toilet. Only thing is I didn’t! In my haste to go back to bed with her I missed. Her mother cleaning the next day found it. I was not popular!
Although that was officially my first time. Unofficially I declare my first real, sexual experience with an older lady who got me aroused and attended to me. (See me other posts). Didn’t take my virginity but it the time it blew my mind. Still get off and that memory so much today
A long term female friend and I had been at a party one night, I walked her home and she asked me in. We ended up in her bed (wasn’t that unusual for us) watching K!ll Bill. Not the most horny of films, not that I remember much of it. We just seemed to start kissing and next thing I know she has me on top of her guiding me inside. Needless to say, it didn’t last long on the first round, but I manage to reload a number of times and keep going.
We never ended up in a relationship, but have been known to have the odd sexual encounter over the years (many times behind the backs of former partners during our twenties) when we’ve both just needed to let off some rampant steam. Since we both found our current partners it hasn’t happened as both pretty satisfied. That said, if we were to ever end up drunk in bed watching K!ll Bill again I’m sure we’d accidentally do it again.
Invited a colleague to my 18th birthday party (we were friendly) and my uncle & family thought he had a crush on me, got drunk and basically threatened him into asking me out on a date. My Dad intervened and offered him a lift home for his own safety (he threw my uncle & co out first) and my colleague agreed and helped us pack up after the party, so that was that.
Got back home, opened the door, I’d completely forgotten to say “by the way, I have dogs at home”. They come charging out, he falls over the big un, the collie licks him and the jack russell thinks he’s his new favourite toy. I thought he ain’t ever gonna want to speak to me again, but lo and behold, the next morning he text me to ask if we can take the dogs for a walk. I’m shocked, but I agreed.
That started a friendship with him coming to mine more often and helping the family, and me going to his. We were both new out of relationships (his ex was my friend, she ditched me for being friends with him after intentionally introducing me to him ), but hey, even our friendship was good. One thing led to another and we ended up fooling around anytime the two of us were home alone, but obviously denying there was anything more going on. I ended up very awkwardly losing my virginity to him in his bed about three months after my 18th, because somehow I just knew I wanted to, he was always gentle and loving with me.
That was twenty years ago, we’ve just celebrated being together officially for 18 years and we celebrate 12 years married in May. Yes, falling in love with my ex-friend’s ex-boyfriend is still the best thing that ever happened to me
On my single bed with my boyfriend at the time. We had been together a few months and our relationship was becoming more and more sexual. We planned it in advance. He bought condoms from the vending machine in a local pub and we planned it for an afternoon when my parents were at work. It wasn’t great! We stayed together for a few more months and I kept waiting for fireworks - I never got them! I’d get very aroused before but the act itself never lived up to expectation. We were both very inexperienced so probably not his fault and I didn’t know what to do or ask for to get those fireworks. I certainly do now
I was 19 and she 20, on a camping tour of the canadian roxkies and had a holidaya romance. She was Australian and ahowed me down under? And had 10 days of naughty fun
“life begins at 18 story” with my bestie snuggled up watching movies like we always did and then i felt her hand on my tummy going south into my pjs and in the side of my underwear , followed by a kiss …i didnt stop her i wasnt expecting it ..we had a fin night , first time with a guy was 6-8 after , he was my bf and i was tired of him just feeling me up and not going any further after months…so i got my pants off and git his off and climbed on top and got him in , thought twice about no condom after a minute or so climbed off to get one and felt him spray the back of my thigh…we tried again the next day with a condom it was much better and we both had a fun time
i think we’ve all had bfs the same just no magic once we were naked , and some guys no magic with clothes on but full fireworks when they aren’t …in a way lucky the fireworks weren’t there with your cherry picker .
At the house of my GF. we did it on her parents bed room. Had to hide under the bed when her dad forgot something at home, good thing he didn’t stayed too long.
I am still waiting for that first time, maybe I should get out more, had various short flings with hands in certain places on PDA’s but not gone all the way
Just don’t think about it. I’m really a shy person but whenever im with a group of people that has the same hobbies as me, my mouth wont shut up! hahaha. When I was in college, I always look for clubs that is in line with my interests.
@Oldman . This post brought back this old country hit to mind…it could have been written for you.
They don’t make cars like they used to.
I wish we still had it today.
The love we first tasted,
The good love we’re still living:
We owe it to that old '57 Chevrolet.
Met a mother of 3, 12 years older than me at a Christmas party. She was newly separated and asked if I would accompany her to a pub, of course, being Christmas, nothing was open, so ended up at her place. ( her kids with her X). It was probably clumsy and I remember telling me to slow down and afterwards I told her it was my first time. 35 years later, we are still close,
In the USA, you are a “minor” until age 18. That’s where the term jail bait comes from. If one of the partners is under 18, technically, it’s rape in the eyes of the law because at the younger age one cannot consent.
Same in the UK, you can’t vote, smoke, drink or gamble until the age of 18. You can drive a car at 17 years old. You can have sex at 16 years old which is considered the age of consent and can marry at the age of 18.
It is also interesting that although the age of consent os 16 years old, sexting with anyone under the age of 18 years os an offence as is exchanging sexual images.
So as LH rightly says, all activities discussed in the forum begon at 18.
), but hey, even our friendship was good. One thing led to another and we ended up fooling around anytime the two of us were home alone, but obviously denying there was anything more going on. I ended up very awkwardly losing my virginity to him in his bed about three months after my 18th, because somehow I just knew I wanted to, he was always gentle and loving with me.
They don’t make cars like they used to.
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