Sorry to hear you had a deprived life Naughty40, time to make up for lost time though now girl!!! As with all new toys apprehension can prove a tad of a hurdle, so maybe best to get yourself a rabbit if you haven;t one already, and a small dildo for your ass and then engage in that o so wonderful solitary vice!! Just that it wont seem like solitary vice with the three of you present ha ha.
And don't forget the lubrication....Love Honey sell a few, and if stuck in the interim you might just have some olive oil until your order arrives.... will hubby survive all this do you think???
Sorry to hear you had a deprived life Naughty40, time to make up for lost time though now girl!!! As with all new toys apprehension can prove a tad of a hurdle, so maybe best to get yourself a rabbit if you haven;t one already, and a small dildo for your ass and then engage in that o so wonderful solitary vice!! Just that it wont seem like solitary vice with the three of you present ha ha.
And don't forget the lubrication....Love Honey sell a few, and if stuck in the interim you might just have some olive oil until your order arrives.... will hubby survive all this do you think???
Goodluck -Tallboy
Lube wise I defo reccomend Sliquid H20 its Fab and a Really good price, but whatever you do make sure you use something Lube wise, because if you dont OUCH with a big O
Did use a lube - I have a Durex one we use - cant remember what its called, but its the huge red tube one, we have also tried the tingle, heat and cool. I so love the tingle....mmmmm
Anyways, took it easy - finger first, then a soft top vibrator. Hmm.....got the ouch and burn - but remembered what you all advised and waited - then it passed. But not sure if I errr.....did too much, as now I have an aching butt! Not particularly painful - but a reminder that it has seen some action - is this normal btw?
But the strange thing is though - even though Im a bit tender - I want more!!!!
Did use a lube - I have a Durex one we use - cant remember what its called, but its the huge red tube one, we have also tried the tingle, heat and cool. I so love the tingle....mmmmm
Anyways, took it easy - finger first, then a soft top vibrator. Hmm.....got the ouch and burn - but remembered what you all advised and waited - then it passed. But not sure if I errr.....did too much, as now I have an aching butt! Not particularly painful - but a reminder that it has seen some action - is this normal btw?
But the strange thing is though - even though Im a bit tender - I want more!!!!
The burn is probaly the durex lube it's not the best for anal !!
An interesting weekend. Hubby was okay with it all, he err - 'obliged' and we both enjoyed it - it deffo heightens the feelings vaginally. But so far, we have not attempted penetration, but its on the cards.
Oh and I had a sly feel around as well......he was well suprised! (But did not complain!) Said it was strangely erotic.......
its my boyfriends birthday next week and i want to forfill one of his fantasys which is anal sex - i've only tried it once before and it was a disasterous drunken mess lol, and didn't really work
He's rather well endowed and is much bigger than any guy i have ever seen - he's long and girthy which is great, but im worried about anal - i've convinced myself its going to hurt and thats putting me off!
Im looking at this kit - is it the best out there?
i want to be as prepared as possible so it doesn't hurt and that he has a good time, so my bum has to be ready - one friend has sugested having a warm bath - and another has suggested being drunk to desensitise myself - anyone have any more tips
my boyfriend also wants to cum in my ass without a comdom, is this safe? he want me to push it out while he watches - any tips on this
sorry for all the questions, im only young and new to this!!
Good luck. Please don't put pressure on yourself and you will make it a great experience for both of you when the time is right.
Carly is right, as much as it may not be ideal for him, using a condom will make it much more comfortable for you whilst you get used to it. The lip of his helmet can feel sore until you are used to it so the condom makes his whole cock much smoother. Although I've tried lubes specifically for anal sex I still find Liquid Silk by far the best as many will agree on this site.
My advice, have a glass of wine, use loads and loads of lube and take it easy, don't rush.
Ideally you should experiment with anal play until it feels right to go all the way, especially if your man is beautifully proportioned. Time spent in preparation and patience will be rewarded in the long run.
honest chuck i'd use a butt plug for a while first... and do a bit of butt training this way you'll be confident of sucess...i know many here have just gone straight to cock.. but if your even a little bit nervous it might not go well... and that would be a shame because anal is great!.. just take it steady and prepare,, thats fun too!!!
honest chuck i'd use a butt plug for a while first... and do a bit of butt training this way you'll be confident of sucess...i know many here have just gone straight to cock.. but if your even a little bit nervous it might not go well... and that would be a shame because anal is great!.. just take it steady and prepare,, thats fun too!!!
Speaking as a man who has had anal sex with one of my girl friends, she was always telling me to "be gentle". The thing is, if you are in e.g. doggy position, a man's natural urge is to just go for it and thrust away too fast at the start. I found it quite hard to control myself and be gentle in this position, perhaps you need to explain that to your man. After you have got into it, it kind of opens up and it's different.
