Any tips for beginners?

Hi,

Looking for some tips/porducts to get for a couple just starting to look at doing some new stuff.

Looking at some games etc that will spice things up and just looking for some suggestions.

Thanks

Hey! Welcome =)

If you're completely new to everything, I'd be happy to share with you the things I think best suit beginners! =)

Games:

Monogamy - A really simple game that you can take as far as you like. Definitely spices things up!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=662

Lover's Choice Gift Set - Super cheap, and you get lots to play with as well as some fun ideas!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19355

Toys:

BASIC Bumper Bag - Really worth the price, you get a lot of new little toys to test out together.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15585

Jack Rabbit Pearl Vibe - Not too huge, really easy to use, super cheap and one of my firm favourites!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=161

Ridge Rider Enhancer Sleeve - Really one of my favourites now! A great little extra during a session!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16621

Other Bits:

Tracey Cox Bondage Tape - Very cheap, you get a lot of it and you can do a lot with it! Perfect for beginners!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16307

Chocolate Body Paint - Cheapest and tastiest, and great for getting over any nerves

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2869

His n Hers Kit - You get lots of little bits to try at a brilliant price! Great stuff!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20147

Also looking through some massage products would be a good idea, if you like that sort of thing! If you like anal there are some great beginners products in that category, however I'm not a fan so it would be silly for me to give you advice on that!

I'm not gonna recommend any costumes to you, because that's all personal taste, but LH have some lovely ones so do have a look through! I find that costumes and flavour play are brilliant fun ways of getting things started. You feel much less reserved about doing new things when you're in character! So yes! Sorry for the long, long post here, and of course I can't possibly tell you all the amazing things on this site, but those are things I would definitely recommend to a beginner!

Hey, haven't seen you before on LH, so welcome. we have the 'Monogamy' game at home. I would recommend it, it's very good. Or 'Nooki' I hear is supposed to be very good also. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=662

There's some fantastic products on here, can I recommend liquid silk lubricant if you haven't already tried? It's amazing. you can read my review on it if you like, or anybody else's as it seems to be a winner: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7163

If you want to look at new stuff can I recommend the Tracey Cox books, she's an excellent sexpert with lots of hints and tips on sex and ideas for sex and couples. I can thoroughly recommend her 'hot sex' book. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=324

As regards toys and lingerie, I feel that's down to personal taste so I'd suggest just to look through the site and see what takes you and your OH's fancy, there's lots to choose from with thousands of reviews from real people that have tried and tested them. (can I have a job LH?!lol)

Anyway, have fun browsing and good luck. Hope to see you around the forums.

ronnie-baby

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if you look on the lovehoney blog Alice has written one for couples on there honeymood which might have some useful ideas as they seem like very good starting points for any couple wanting to try out new toys.

The Nymphomaniac wrote:

if you look on the lovehoney blog Alice has written one for couples on there honeymood which might have some useful ideas as they seem like very good starting points for any couple wanting to try out new toys.

do you have the link for that? I'd like to read it.

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Thanks guys, Looking at buying the sratch card stuff as a cheeky starter. Love being tied up but with new house have no headboard which is rubbish.... so looking for something for that.

The Monogamy game looks good as well, will have a cheeky look thanks :)

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2011/02/17/honeymoon-essentials/

The Nymphomaniac wrote:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2011/02/17/honeymoon-essentials/

thanks hun! x x

Ah, these are brilliant if you have nothing to tie yourself to:

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2444

Booties wrote: Ah, these are brilliant if you have nothing to tie yourself to: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2444 are they any good Booties? Have had them on my wishlist for a while now! x x

ronnie-baby wrote:

Booties wrote: Ah, these are brilliant if you have nothing to tie yourself to: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2444 are they any good Booties? Have had them on my wishlist for a while now! x x

I have these too!! I love love love them!! They're brilliant!!

Such a lifesaver when you haven't got a four poster/brass bed to tie yourself up to xx

me and the OH have wanted them for ages, just haven't got round to getting them yet! lol

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ronnie-baby wrote:

Booties wrote: Ah, these are brilliant if you have nothing to tie yourself to: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2444 are they any good Booties? Have had them on my wishlist for a while now! x x

Yup! A lot less complicated than they look, plus they're comfy and hold you tight! And everything is pretty adjustble to your/the bed's size. Didn't get mine from LH but they're the exact same so...

Can I just say g&g, that you look amazing in your profile pic. Love your corset/basque!

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ronnie-baby wrote:

Can I just say g&g, that you look amazing in your profile pic. Love your corset/basque!

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Awwww bless you sweetie xx Yours isn't too shabby either!! External Media

& those restraints are totally worth the money xx

Like booties said they're really comfy, easy to use & you can pack them away in a wash bag or something when they're not in use to keep them tidy/clean/away from prying eyes x

Thank you very much.

I will definately get them soon!

x x

Another vote for Monogamy. Fun game we played just the other day.

SL90 wrote:

Thanks guys, Looking at buying the sratch card stuff as a cheeky starter. Love being tied up but with new house have no headboard which is rubbish.... so looking for something for that.

The Monogamy game looks good as well, will have a cheeky look thanks :)

Here's a list of cheaper options for being tied up. You can try bondage tape and/or rope. The taps overlaps and sticks to itself and not on you. It'd make an interesting tool in bondage play.

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/bondage/bondage-rope-tape/

I recommend the Monogamy game too. It's a really good game to build momentum and it's just fun really. =]

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WandA wrote:

Another vote for Monogamy. Fun game we played just the other day.External Media

Yeah.. some things on there are just priceless.. The "how hungry is your........" is now a (not-so) inside joke. I was "famished". ;P

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WandA wrote:

Another vote for Monogamy. Fun game we played just the other day.External Media

Yeah.. some things on there are just priceless.. The "how hungry is your........" is now a (not-so) inside joke. I was "famished". ;P

We ended early to finish off before Ad's early morning start the next day. I had an awesome fantasy card too!External Media