My OH an I have been together for almost 2 years and our relationship and sex life is still amazing. We are both very open t trying new things and it just gets better. I am, however, nervous of ball play and it’s definitely something I want to improve my skills at. I have it in my head that they’re so easily hurt that I’m nervous of doing much with them! I was giving him a BJ this morning, and whilst I sort of cup his balls when I’m doing it, I don’t really know what to do!
Can anyone give ideas of what they do or like done to them!
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Men are different and have different “pain” threshold. Find out what he likes. I learned by watching my hubby stroked himself while I was. He like a little tug. He also likes them lightly massaged. Since women do not have any balls physically. It’s hard to know. And do not be afraid to ask. Also try sucking and light kisses on them. Ask him to let you know if it feels good or not. Communication with your partner makes foreplay and sex so much better.
Having then sucked, squeezed played with is lovely am sure you will know what is liked and what isn’t just ask or perhaps just do it and work from the response……
Ask first…I love scrote play… start really gently…ask him how he likes his balls fondling… perhaps gently suckle them whilst running your tongue over them whilst using your hand to masturbate him… gently pull on them and fondle them whilst giving him a blow job…keep asking him if he’s ok with it all and if he wants you to be less gentle and you will soon get used to how he likes it…
Like with everything communication is the key with new things…we’re not all the same… some don’t like it…some love it. Like with everything it’s all trial and error.
Thanks for the replies, we’ll definitely talk about it. When we were talking one time he did say “don’t neglect the balls” so it’s definitely something he’d like, so just need to work on what and get over my fear that I’m going to hurt him. Although, we do like an element of pain, but I’m not sure if it’s that pain!!
I love them played with , cupped , lightly touched , gentles nails over them and softly massaged.
Not a fan of anything to heavy on them or squeezed to hard as have experienced some pain / uncomfortableness.
So best to see what he likes or try what I’ve described as that’s fairly gentle play and work up if he wants more definitely play with them or touch / hold though as would say it adds to the pleasure.
As everyone has said already, this is such a personal thing so talking with your guy and experimenting to find what he enjoy is the best course of action.
Personally, I’m always in the mood for a cup, suck or gentle squeeze… But there are times where a decent slap or pull really adds to the big O!
Some great advice above, communication is definitely needed
For us personally, he does love when I
run my tongue all over, masturbating him at the same time. Gently suckle on them, also put them in my mouth, sometimes both at the same time, and use my tongue at the same time. While I’m still masturbating him.
I love my balls to be bitten. Also a bit of slapping but nothing too heavy. I think everyone is different so just find what he likes and go from there. As everyone has said communication is key.
I like mine squeezed quite hard. We also have a ball crusher and a ball stretching weight so ball play is a big part of our sex lives . Even more so now that I’m caged as my balls are the only part of my genitals which are actually accessible.
Start off by cupping them then move on to squeezing gently. Tell him to let you know when it becomes too uncomfortable. You may be surprised how much he will tolerate and enjoy.
My wife has Parkinsons and she doesn’t have much grip strength so she can squeeze me as hard as she can and I still love it.
Depending on how sensitive his are you could lick and suck on them, give them a bit of a massage with your fingers or if he’s ok with some rough play grab them in one hand and tenderly yank them.
My most favourist thing is my OH pulling on my balls when they’re giving me a BJ, OH literally grips around the top of my balls and pulls, getting harder and harder whilst giving me deep throat. By the time I cum they’re being pulled as hard as possible! I love it!!
I love having my balls held, gently squeezed and massaged - kind of thinking of the way you might check if an apricot was ripe. It feels so good if it’s later in the day to have my wife’s soft, warm hands soothing my balls. Firm enough to not tickle, but I wouldn’t say I’m interested in getting to rough. I love it when she sucks on them during a blowjob - keep the hand going, but let your mouth do the work below for a bit.
Hopefully your partner’s vocal enough to judge from his sounds if he’s enjoying as you explore and try things out. I’m sure he’ll let you know if it gets too rough…
For me it is light squeezing and foundling of my balls, but when the OH is playing with my cock, i like it to be rough.
I can come almost instantly if the OH pulls my foreskin back as tight as it will go, to the point of making my frenulum taught. My glan goes deep purple and almost immediately starts to bob up and down, as further stroking of my frenulum with her other hand whilst keeping my foreskin pulled down, has me spurting.
She is worried that it hurts, but thr sheer look of pleasure tells otherwise.
over them and softly massaged.
definitely play with them or touch / hold though as would 
say it adds to the pleasure.