My boyfriend and I are into BDSM, in which he is the master and I the slave. We both find the idea of him giving me another slave to dominate really hot and we would love to have a threesome but I don't want to risk our relationship. Is it possible to survive a threesome? If anyone has done something like that I would love to know how it turned out.
Hi Lisha, here are the links to a couple of previous threads on threesomes :) xx
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/322-having-a-threesome/
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/473216-threesomes/
One of the greatest things for me is to have my dom bring in another dom, but female. Having to do as she says and wishes as well as my dom would be incredibly hot.
Lisha wrote:
My boyfriend and I are into BDSM, in which he is the master and I the slave. We both find the idea of him giving me another slave to dominate really hot and we would love to have a threesome but I don't want to risk our relationship. Is it possible to survive a threesome? If anyone has done something like that I would love to know how it turned out.
I have fantasised about this exact scenario a lot before, but as I'm not the sharing type I don't I could ever survive a threesome; I don't like sharing!
Some time ago in a previous relationship, myself and my girl at the time decided to try both being submissive to the same mistress (a friend of hers) because neither of us felt dominant.
So she would dominate us both together. Nothing heavy, just a bit of fun.
Except it didn't really do anything for us. The 'mistress' was the only one who got really into it and when we didn't want to do it any more she got peeved and began making things very awkward for us, which consequently ended our relationship. So there's that potential to consider also.
I think that was how I found out that really I wasn't into threesomes. Or BDSM for that matter!