Bendy dildos

Hi guys,I am a normal bloke that is looking for some advice.I have recently started to introduce a 12inch double ended jelly dildo into my life.I am having a few problems getting it in to my arse without difficulty.I am using a fair bit of lube,but it is very hard to keep hold of the slippery monster and guide it in, I did eventually manage to insert it but it was very time consuming and there must be an easier way to manage it.Any help would be very welcum

Other than continuing to safely practise, I don't really believe there is much you can do to "speed it up" that doesn't risk you rushing and causing problems. Your insides are very delicate, and you should take your time.