Was interested in this thread but it seems to have become a penis wars!!
Seriously though I’ve had prostate stimulators before that have missed the spot! The only success I’ve had with prostate stimulation is when I’ve been pegged by the Misses and the stimulation has milked my prostate. But can’t seem to reproduce it during solo play.
See during anal sex I don’t really get prostate stimulation, just feels nice to be full and stretched out etc. I’ve only achieved it with someone else fingering might just be a me problem? not sure what to do
We have a prostate massager which we enjoy but doesn’t hit that spot.
I would also love to find something that does.
@Yes_man I was just thinking about this because I’m kinda the same. I might just use a condom on my fingers and treat hubby to some anal play later - that way, I won’t get my hands dirty
Do you think your missus may try that?
@Cupc8kes I’m an engineer and we have latex gloves which are a thicker grade to normal ones, still not interested! Even asked her to teach me how to douche properly and still no!! It’s a shame because my biggest kink is for her to fist me but that will never happen!!
In terms of prostate toys I personally love the desire remote controlled prostate massager. Another line to look into if you need more curve is the rocks off ones as they typically have a stronger curve than most.
Toys are like everything else sadly. Just because one person loves one toy others will equally hate the same toy. I’m an aneros fan, they are mind blowing amazing if you get it right. I’m talking the equivalent of a screaming female orgasm several times over. However I’ve used other highly reviewed toys that did absolutely nothing for me (the mantric vibrating prostate massager). Be careful of reviews some are designed to pull you in. I had a bad experience with a negative review very early on in my LH days.
I’m with you on this one. Very early on in my anal adventure I jumped in and invested a significant amount of money on a lelo Hugo massager having read amazing things about it.
Although it was a high quality toy it just didn’t do much for me. It’s much better to get to know what kind of toys and stimulation you like before jumping in. Personally my favorite toys are all non vibrating realistic dildos and aneros massages.
@Floating_Fun_Guy indeed, the mantric one was a very good looking, well made piece of kit. But it did absolutely nothing for me and ended up in the bucket!
Thanks for the help guys, I went ahead and ordered the flexcite 10 function silicone vibrating prostate massager. It’s nice and large with a curve and not too pricey so thought why not give it a try.
Hubby has a couple of vibrating prostate toys but he finds they don’t quite hit the spot and the buzzy vibe just makes him numb he prefers a more rumbly vibration. The best results for him have been long slow strokes with a large dildo around 8 or 9 inches.
They toy arrived today (such fast delivery from LH!), I’ve been playing with it for over an hour now and still not doing anything for me. What will it take to finally get a prostate orgasm
I feel the same. I’ve got various aneros toys and a mantric vibrating one. At best they feel kinda nice? But definitely not enough to make me look forward to using them.