My wife and married young and have been brought up pretty conservative (both virgins in fact when we married)
We're not naive and know the basics (tab a into slot b etc) but we'd both like to spice things up and hopefully get over some reservations and inhibitions that we have.
So any advice on a good book we could both read together? Something that talks you through stuff; for example:
my wife is totally turned off by oral sex, won't entertain blow jobs, and rarely lets me go down on her, although she enjoys it; and that's what I really like. She doesn't like kissing me afterwards, I think that's what the issue is.
It would be nice if there was a book that talked through issues like this and maybe helped us work things out together.
I guess I'm more of a 'lets try things and see how it goes' where my wife is more reserved.
Any help would be really great. We love to please each other in bed and it would be good to make it better
Yeah I think that book would be good I wanna read it, not that my sex life needs spicing up, but its always good to get new ideas! And the tips and hints on the Tracy Coxs sex toys are always good so the book should be. =)
On amazon there is a book called "better sex" it s good, there is also a DVD called "lovers guide" I think it is 7 discs and is very good. I bought it and watched it even though we are older and have a good sex life, but did pick up some tips and your wife may change her mind on oral after watching!!