BJ or Hand job

I’ve never asked him about preference but when we first got married OH was reluctant at first when I asked about giving him a HJ, saying nobody has been able to make him come that way so he believed he just couldn’t with someone else doing it.
Well that’s fine I said, it’s my first time so let me just make you feel good for a while and tell me to stop when you’ve had enough.
Ended up having to wash the bedding :smiling_imp: he was surprised, I was rather proud of myself :joy: had no issues since!

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As the giver I enjoy both. Starting off with a hand job then working my way up to a blow job just feels like the natural flow of things I think. I also like to put my hands to use when giving oral sex so I vote both.

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I think both have their time and place. Although the obvious answer in bj, sometimes i just really crave a nice lubey hj

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I agree with this completely… and I’m speaking as both a giver, and receiver xxx

R xx

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Definitely a BJ out the two but do enjoy a boob wank more!! :yum:

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I love to get a bj off the misses but unfortunately she’s not keen with me shooting in her mouth, but she does give an amazing hand job she sits on the bed and I lay on the bed with my legs either side of her and she sits there playing with me with loads of lube then sometimes plays with my bum aswell until I explode every where lol.

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I much prefer a BJ. Topless hopefully at that.
Really love a HJ too and like a good cock massage in my older age.

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I like a BJ but my wife won’t let me cum in her mouth so she finishes me with a HJ. She’ll also give me a tit wank which is really good. It’s very arousing to have my wife push her tits round my cock.

I usually cum very quickly.

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Mrs. Val is the same. She will take it on the chest and loves to watch it spurt out, but never allows a mouth shot…
A great titty f*ck is fantastic as well as she’s got great breasts (32 D’s). She also likes watching me look after myself as she applies the lube.

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You taste like your lifestyle, it could be flavour or texture that your partners don’t like.
My ex had nasty tasting and smelling cum, he ate rubbish and smoked like it was saving his life. That was never going near my mouth. The rest of the sex, I thought was great, until I had great sex :upside_down_face:

Had one guy decide he wasn’t going to cum on my boobs like we agreed and it hit my eye, it was so thick it was giving me the ick just removing it from my eye. He got shown the door once I found it :rofl:

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My wife is similar. Gives me a bj but does not want me to cum in her mouth so when i am close changes to a hj or tit wank with her dd breasts and loves a pearl necklace or me to blow on her stomach or back

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My wife will go down but doesnt want me to cum in her mouth. She doesnt like the texture and I respect that. She loves the feeling of cum inside her or likes watching me blow on her hips or F cup titties. Which i am totally fine with.

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I’d prefer to give a blow job, it’s easier on the wrist and they and at the end of it I get fed. Win win

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I am rubbish at hand jobs, feel like I am not getting the pace or pressures right, not that he complains. I much prefer giving a BJ, faster result too! Have always swallowed.

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Love giving a good Blow job.

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Unless i get the screwdriver out, it’s a hand job, ive got a huge 0000 guage pa ring which you really dont want your teeth clanging against

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Ok, have a coldsore at the mo so BJ a no go and tried some new moves for HJ last night which went down very well with OH…maybe my HJ game is on the up, both hands for the win!

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Hand jobs :grin::grin:

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I especially like a hand job when my wife sit astride me with my cock against her vagina so when she is masterbating me it looks like a “chick with a dick” is cumin over me

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Blowjobs for me , I absolutely just love giving them , my last partner preferred handjobs.

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