Hmm. Not one for been on the recieving end of BJ’s often due to hyper sensitivity, so a question
- What is your preference in recieving
- What’s your preference in giving
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Sloppy and slow
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My preference is to do it the way the way that HE loves it…because his pleasure is also my pleasure…and have found each one has liked it doing slightly differently.
I love love giving them…so I want to make sure that my partner loves what I do and wants them as often as possible…
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I’m sure your right and my preference is mentioned above
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Put the vibrator up your ass you mean
I actually like any way it’s done as long as she is enjoying just as much as me, giving me a nice look in my eyes. a BJ while she is holding/playing with my balls 
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Hubby loves it when I start off with going slowly and gradually building up the pace and increasing the pressure, every now and then, I’ll make eye contact with him. He also loves when I deepthroat him, he also loves it when I play with his balls as I perform oral on him.
It all gives me pleasure and it’s my all time favourite thing to do. But what makes it more pleasurable for me, is hearing him enjoying it, and having him talking dirty to me, and with consent having him grab my hair and forcing my head movements, and not forgetting the spankings while I’m performing oral on him.
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Definitely eye contact does the trick 
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Kinda love receiving but questionable on giving as have to be in the right mood to enjoy it 
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I do it the way he likes it with lots of eye contact. Sloppy and deep and once he’s deep in my throat I’ll wink and smile. I love the expression he makes when I do that 
Ball and perineum licking too with some slow sloppy stroking of his penis.
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Slow, fast, deep, wet, on and off, eye contact, use of hands, no hands, balls play, up to nipples back down to bj, licking, kissing sucking, rolling. My wife had many good techniques.
If we need a quicky I get a few minutes. If time is no option then I get a nice kong bj with various techniques from her which is great and she says she loves giving them to me 
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It sounds like she should give lessons!
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@FunSam92 = I think she should we’ve been together 20 years and sometimes she still comes up with new awesome BJ moves.
I know she watches the occasional porn by herself so think she’s learning some that way which is great for me and I don’t mind her watching porn at all!
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It’s amazing how much you can still change it up. Eye contact is the golden rule though
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Giving: Would love to give a blowjob to someone one day. I think I would give a sloppy one in the way I like it. Until he finishes in my mouth
Receiving: Preferably sloppy with some deep throating and some licking and sucking on the and caressing the balls. Then going from the balls to my ass and slowly start working my ass and playing with the prostate, by keeping adding fingers until she is wrist deep
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@FunSam92 - yes we like to make eye contact whilst she’s doing it. I do have permission and it’s on a card on an app that we used that I’m allowed to cum over her face but even though we’ve been together 20 years I haven’t had the courage to do it yet.
I think I’ll feel bad doing it like it’s on a porn video but there’s a small chance she actually wants me to and might enjoy it.
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@Beats69 - we haven’t done it for a while but love it when my wife licks, rim, and uses her fingers around my ass and into it for my prostrate.
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@forwardghoul52 - my wife doesn’t mind the taste of my cum and sometimes swallows mine just in case for any reason we can’t have sex. I’ve tried it myself (not when she’s been around and it tastes perfectly fine to me and a good bit of protein / I don’t do that often!).
One of my exes also said that I taste very good. I do cum quite a lot and it normally goes a long way so a small chance it might bounce of her face and go everywhere… Might have to do the first bit from a distance then close in for last more calm bits on her face 
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From a recieving point of view, prolonged wet edging with lots of spit and deep sucking. Not a fan of getting head from different angles as it really is sensitive…love it when my load is appreciated or finished with some snowballing.
Hmm. I’m not a giver…however out of curiosity an very attractive blonde trans lady could give me some “pointers” in another lifetime where I’m not married…yes that was a pun
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@forwardghoul52 = great suggestion - when I cum orgasm I do mention and let her know.
But I normally speed up my hand and grip and go for it so it’s maximum speed. It goes even crazier during long sex with wife sessions or edging myself.
Next few times I cum solo laying on my back or standing up I’ll try what you mentioned going nice and slow and barely cuming stroking and just easing it out and see what happens.
If I stand at the end of a normal bath I normally hit a few tiles above the taps.
If I lay on my back it’s sometimes shot over my own head or onto my face and I’m over 6ft tall!
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