we watch porn together alot, however recently i, the m, have been getting bored of it, we usualy watch online, often the website named after a small rodent, we are into most stuff, we are both bi so mainly anything goes, but lately ive had trouble getting turned on by anything , its all abit to staged and fake.anyone else had this problem, porn is an important part of our together time, and alone time.
There's a lot of verified amateur porn available now. Maybe try some of that - orveven get involved?
I have this problem with mainstream porn; if I can tell that they're faking or if what they're doing doesn't look realistic then it just doesn't do it for me!
Agree with big in berks that amateur porn might be a good way to go. I'm also really into audio porn.
I have found Porn of any type by itself non stimulating.
When I was way younger Pre-Internet Porn all I needed was a slight breeze and a glance at the ladies undergarment section in a Sears catalog and I would be at full attention.
What I have found I like the most from Modern Porn is VR Porn, especially watching POV VR porn.
I really enjoy how realistic and intimate it can be, especially when the Woman on screen is on top kissing and whispering up close and personal.
I can sit back and relax and just enjoy the moment, that is when I come across a VR film that was done right.
For every VR film I enjoy I find 10 of them to be a waste of time.
I also enjoy ASMR audio better than regular porn.
I guess because I get plenty of sexual release when I need.
What I do not get or give on a regular basis is intimacy, passion, closesness, Kissing ETC which is many of the things I would get or give if I was healthy.
We absolutely hate 'professional' porn, the bodies are unrealistic, so are the scenarios and the dialogue. We prefer to watch genuine amateur group stuff, which is what got us into swinging in the first place. It usually looks natural and fun, everyone has real bodies and the men don't pull out when cumming, another artificiality of professional porn.
A friend did some professional porn when younger, she says it was totally non-erotic for her and the others involved, which is probably why so many porn stars look bored and the sex isn't realistic.
I agree re professional porn, hate it. If you're allowed to say, which are the best sites for good amateur porn?
I have tended to use a site beginning with P and ending in hub but even some of the supposed amateur stuff feels staged.
Have you tried some of the live cam sites? I find some of the performers too staged but some you can see are clearly in to it and that I find most arousing of all
I went off studio house porn a while ago too, now only watch verified amateur stuff or similar where I can find it. Swmbo has just recently shown an interest in watching some with me which should be interesting. @Aanda your chosen site is not the best one for streaming IMO.
Michael777 wrote:
I agree re professional porn, hate it. If you're allowed to say, which are the best sites for good amateur porn?
I have tended to use a site beginning with P and ending in hub but even some of the supposed amateur stuff feels staged.
Thats where I tend to go - if you keep digging around you'll soon find someone who matches your taste and has lots of videos
In fairness I probably usually find something worth a watch. It's just the filters are a bit spurious sometimes and the the filter for Amateur definitely doesn't throw up amateur every time.BigInBerks wrote:
Michael777 wrote:
I agree re professional porn, hate it. If you're allowed to say, which are the best sites for good amateur porn?
I have tended to use a site beginning with P and ending in hub but even some of the supposed amateur stuff feels staged.Thats where I tend to go - if you keep digging around you'll soon find someone who matches your taste and has lots of videos
Michael777 - do you look for the blue ticks? They are the verified amateurs. You're right, the simple filters are untrustworthy.
Ah no, not spotted those. I've obviously not been searching properly. I'll look out for those - thanks!BigInBerks wrote:
Michael777 - do you look for the blue ticks? They are the verified amateurs. You're right, the simple filters are untrustworthy.
Studio porn is awful. Can't stand it. Amateur is best for me. I'm more for audio and literotica porn nowadays.
I use PornOfWeb (POW) to find sites for porn. We both like lesbian but it must have a story, a good story. Also good tribbing session as that's the bit that really gets her going. I agree a lot of porn is terrible but some is just amazing. Alone I like TV stuff and women masturbating when done artistically like I Feel Myself. Occasionally, and very rarely other stuff. I also love Literotica. Actually have better orgasms reading than watching.
Perhaps explore other sites. If you like really tasteful women try I feel Myself. It is a pay site but if you search you'll find their stuff on free sites.
thank you all that took the time to reply, now have some ideas to try many thanks x
I have to agree, amateur plan is better. Also I found I was fed up with porn at one stage all together and do not wanted to even watch it. In the end, we found out another way - role playing at home, or reading a good story. Or sending naughty texts to each other. And now porn is more like occassional thing, rather than the more common one.
But tbh it was mainly me losing interest in porn and erhm really affected me badly.
Long term porn watcher here and I have the same struggle 😫 I spoke to my G.P about this out of desperation as it was affecting arousal in sex in my marriage, first I couldn't get turned on without porn a few years ago, and now I can't get turned on with it. He showed me studies where the frontal lobe of the brain gets affected by this and often people become addicted to it but then can become desensitized to it also. It hasn't got better for me, I haven't had any help, just advice to abstain to help the brain recover, which I haven't really wanted to do. So now it just takes a lot of patience with myself and my other half. As all of the above say amateur porn is the only thing for me, the set up scenarios are cheesy and I don't find the actors appealing or convincing. Good luck with your issue, if you find anything that helps let us know how you get on!
I just cant get off with pornstar videos or anything thats not real, i dont even get a rise if its been staged. It is hard to find real amateur stuff that i like.
I'm a bit bored with the fascination for stepmother/ sister/ father themed videos. Seems to be everywhere at the moment. That or interracial cuckold.
I like some amateur stuff but I'm a bit of a stickler for video quality. If you're going to film something and put it up for others to watch get a reasonable camera, learn to use it and make a decent job of it ;)
Being a gay male, I see ALOT of over staged porn and it just turns me off straight away.
I hate downloading something thinking it looks really hot, then the second it starts the guys are all moaning far too much, talking way too much and honestly it is all over-acted to the point where I end up laughing, turning it off and then not bothering at all.
I have also watched straight porn and I see it is just as common; women over acting and playing to the back row to the point where I stop and think " does anyone actually get off on this?"
Luckily I have found that slightly more Amaturish videos are much better and turn me on so much more, plus I prefer a more realistic figure on a guy rather than over-muscled six packs and shaved within an inch of thier lives.
Just my personal preference :-) x