Myself and @FoxyLea87 have decided we would create sexual bucket list that we would like to tick off once covid etc has passed and it is safe to venture out again. (Was actually very interesting and quite a good laugh to create) Just wondered if any others had done this?
I have a âf*ck it listâ. Being single, itâs hard just now but when things get relatively back to normal and I can go swinging and meeting people again, I intend to tick a few more things off
We are wanting to explore with another man, and attend a swinging club, hopefully when things get back to normal we can start to explore
Been thinking of a âfu@k it listâ myself. Including bringing up my secret desires to be pegged to my wife.
It wouldnât be someone we know, the club would be close by. We have previously enjoyed some fun outside and in the car, it is a thrill with the thought of someone watching or catching us
It is scary to open to open up about desires, telling my wife (@FoxyLea87) that I wanted to be pegged, and then coming out as bi curious, was nerve racking but has opened up a new world of possibilities for both us, and has made us stronger , (and definitely more adventurous )
There is nothing either of us can think of that we would like to do but havenât already done (and we both have fertile imaginations) so we donât have a list.
We have a bucket list every and have just updated it for 21.
There were a few carried over from last year due to Covid.
Great fun doing it and seeing how you get on.
We donât have a list but when we talk about fantasies or things weâd like to try, we make a mental reminder and it usually isnât long until we actually get to do it! Obviously it hasnât worked well during 2020 since we have been meeting a lot less frequently with my partners.
However, I have a ââ(people) to do listâ'. Some of the things on it are quite superficial, while others fit better under the ââsexual fantasyââ label.
For example:
-someone who is covered in tattoos
-a redhead with a majestic beard
-father and son
-a submissive that can actually take a lot of pain
Can you mention some of the things in your list?
@Smultron as you wish Some are just expansions of things Iâve already tried. Just a fewâŚ
- More threesomes (but MMF). I havenât been brave enough to do 2 guys yet. FFM is my comfort zone.
- Dogging (Iâm dying to do this with a FWB but then a random comes to join us) I do like surprises.
- More pegging! Iâd like 2 guys to be at my mercy.
- Orgasm denial. Like really push me to my absolute limits. Iâm all for pushing boundaries, but need someone who I can trust fully.
- Try bigger dildos. The biggest Iâve had is a 6.5ââ circumference.
- More outdoor sex. Woods, hot tub, beach. Just anywhere thatâs not inside.
Maybe not totally exciting, but thatâs the basics!
@colinhill253 answer to your question - no. My hornyness stays the same all the time. No matter if I have regular sex or none at all, my personal time is exactly the same.
This sounds like a great idea I think I might have to get working on a list with hubby tonight.
Other thing we would like to try are @FoxyLea87 wants to be completely dominated, she is also going to try and be femdom with me, (role reversal) its definitely going to be an interesting 2021
I would say to mention it to your wife, she may enjoy the idea of role reversal and being that intimate with you x
They really do sound exciting!
Thatâs at the top of my bucket list, I find it so sexy, mentioned it to my wife a couple of times, she seems up for it but hasnât yet tried it
Theyâre all really exciting!
Same here. We play with prostate toys together and sheâs made my legs shake with a Desire magic wand with dildo attachment, but I really want to try pegging. Itâs just a threshold weâve not crossed yet which is a shame. Love the idea of making a sexy bucket list though. Maybe the wife and I can both trade ideas that we wouldnât have normally brought up. A sort of âyou scratch my back, Iâll scratch yoursâ thing
I might start with the LH position of the weeks.amd see how we get on
I also have a f*ck it list! Somehow managed to tick a couple off last year, but when dating/seeing other people is safe again I hope to do a lot more!
Hopefully if youâre on here then youâre managing to make the most of your virginal status.