And I would say bite me but you sadist types would give your right arm for such a chance 
That’s a very interesting way of seeing it. So you think then, and possibly based on experiences similar to my own, that this is almost a “made that way” thing? That external influences create a narcisstic personality that gets repeatedly validated and then gets told one day “eh, you ain’t that special” - thus creating a narcissistic injury and anger? Almost as though what makes us “healthy” is not external validation, as so many narcissitic types seek, but internal validation, when we know and believe in ourselves.
Unquestionably the case for most.
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Granted I immediately thought of my brother. He used to be a small parts actor, encouraged by our mother, now he’s a textbook narcissist.
Oddly enough, he did come onto the scene for a time, only to promptly quit it when he realised that many a submissive would make an absolute meal of him
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Spot on. Nobody is born a narcissist, but they become one because of experiences.
Put it this way, if you were a narcissist, why would you want to give up control of anything, when you already have it? You won’t, thus why a narcissist won’t change.
If it looks like they are changing, it is just an act to reel you back in, before the narcissism takes over again.
Funnily enough I did find that with my ex. I think that’s why, the third time he went on the charm offensive, I’d learned not to bite. It annoyed him no end but oh well. As I’ve said maybe too often lately, so sad, too bad, nevermind 
Also to add, why would I want to give up control? Cos sometimes I’m friggin’ pig sick of being the one expected to take it! Tell me you’re a submissive without telling me you’re a submissive
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I’m going to have to reply to this later @Tenshadesandme, because I need to use a keyboard. Can’t get it right on my phone xx
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Hay that’s not fair, I told you I’m a happyist. Pleasure over pain, pleasurable pain and then painful pleasure
Read: pleasure Dom
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Don’t say you don’t get the pleasure too 
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Yes ma’am, I am a self-identified pleasure submissive. My Dominants’ pleasure is my greatest reward
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Mine isn’t. That’s why i’m not a sub. Make me cum, you bitch!
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Ask your Dom to start swishing the cane
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One of them isn’t home, the others don’t live with me. Sorry
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Have to wait for another time Miss (or Mrs) @Tenshadesandme
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Mrs 
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Oh mine know orgasm denial isn’t a thing we do. Nobody wants to be around me if I haven’t cum in a few days… hours
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Do you go crazy with orgasm denial? 
Why take the risk?
Oh, I do. But what my husband does is get me right to the edge of orgasm and then hold me there for as long as he dares.
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