Calling All Kinky People: Are Dominants Narcissists?

Mine too, and then he revels in the power of it. He won’t ever let me go without, he just won’t let me go anywhere for a while. You gotta love em :joy:

We tried denials a few times, made both of us crazy. The longest now is only half day before our hands get itchy.

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Hubby loves it if I edge him a bit but we never deny one another deliberately. To us, that’s just being mean.

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Same here. He loves the power of having my orgasm just there and in his hands. He’s never stopped me cumming. I think he knows what my reaction would be, and I do love being held in the edge, but sometimes I think he’s overdone it. He hasn’t of course, and the longer he holds me there, the harder I cum.

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Sod half a day. Half an hour more like.

The longer he holds you, the longer you should spank him. Win-win :slight_smile:

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Too long and I will throw in the towel. I have things to do! :joy:

There’s a lot of payback in our sex life!

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I tried that once. He deployed me in spreader bars and then carried on, dragging it out even more. But when I did cum, I blacked out for a few seconds. Amazing strength of orgasm, never quite repeated.

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Fortunately we don’t have a spreader bar… for now!

If Master ever finds a convenient place to store one, that may change!

Can’t he tie your legs to the legs of a table?

Don’t mention tables! Master works with a company that sells breaded chicken and he said earlier that everytime he reads about a “breading table”, he keeps reading it as a “breeding table”. Don’t give a sadist ideas! :joy:

Yes, but spreader bars are so much more versatile, especially if, like me, you have a display fetish.

You so need to get one @Tenshadesandme

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No maam, the table is a good idea for the sadist while waiting for the bars :wink:

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Oh god, the word “breeding” gets me moist every time.

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I’ll have to put it to the powers that be :wink:

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The lip-biting, shortness of breath everytime you see or hear it mentioned in nature programmes/documentaries and you’re trying to be a civilised human about it?

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Two spreader bars and two sets of handcuffs to secure them to things. The perfect restraint set.

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There you go @Tenshadesandme . Great suggestion for the Valentine’s. Get a pair of heels too

Carabiners or rope are the preference around here. Leave it to the handyman to prefer a more industrious approach :joy:

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