Hi, my partner and I have a pretty good sex life but lately we have been having sex less and less because when it is time to put condoms on it kills the mood. We still play with each other and have lots of toys but are starting to miss the closeness of actual intercourse.
The issue is that within 30 seconds of starting to play I'm absolutely soaking with pre, great for unprotected sex but a nightmare when you have to put a condom on as I have to go and clean up killing the mood and my erection.
Obviously I could put a condom on before we start but that's not always practical and really takes the spontaneity out of things. We used to have unprotected sex but my partner had a bad reaction to hormonal contraception so had to stop.
Does Anybody have any advice as I adore my partner but really miss being able to as close as possible to her?