Hi . I was wondering if anyone has tried Dp . The Oh and i are debating whether or not to try it . but im quite scared because 1 i have never done anal. 2 My Oh is quite large .
We dont want another man , so if anyone can suggest a good toy for us .
Thanks :D
Start experimenting with small anal toys and build up to it. No need to jump straight in at the deepend
what toys would you suggest ?
glass is good easy toclean andeasily insertable
To build up to anal toys, I'd start with some anal beads like LH's Beginner's Anal Beads and then moving onto whatever you feel most comfortable with. I agree with lickmadick, glass is really amazing, especially cooled down, but you'd have to be careful not to be get carried away in the heat of the moment, and use plenty of lube.
Yep I've tried it (with toys not another guy) and loved it!
If you go on top and have him move a toy in and out of your ass whilst he's fucking you it feels amazing and the orgasm is explosive. You need lots of lube and get him to start by using just his finger, stroking it around your ass until you relax and enjoy the sensation. Then get him to insert his finger just a little bit and move it slowly in and out.
If you want to use toys then you can't go wrong with this
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053
It's really small but feels wonderful! He can grasp the base and move it in and out whilst he fucks you.
Another toy that I own is this one...
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16561
They're bigger so you can progress to these once you feel more comfortable with the sensation of anal. They're still really comfortable and the great thing is that they have a hole in the base so that your OH can but his finger in, making it easy to move them in and out. You can also put a bullet vibrator in them which gives an amazing sensation for both you and your OH as he'll be able to feel the vibrations in your vagina.
Personally I didn't like anal beads. But this toy looks good and has really great reviews (it's going to be my next purchase!) you can use both ends which makes it very versatile but it's not too big so great for beginners
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2041
You might also benefit from buying a douche, there's rarely any mess with anal but it can put your mind at rest if you know that you're clean down there!
Hope this has helped! The key thing to remember with anal is to take it really really slowly and use lots of lube. Having him finger and lick your ass feels amazing and might help you to relax more before you start using toys but not all guys are happy to do it. Talk to each other about what you're happy doing :) have fun!! xx
Wow thanks yeah the first one will be my next purchase ,
The more i think about it the less i want to do it now
Birkettsbabe wrote:
Wow thanks yeah the first one will be my next purchase ,
The more i think about it the less i want to do it now
Oh no how come?!
when i tried it with my ex we used a small buttplug first as well. this was definitely a good starting point. as dotdashdot mentioned, i held onto the base and used it on her while i fucked her pussy.
if your going to try any toy (for Dp or otherwise) always use lube and stimulate the area to be used first before using the toy with the lube and experiment urself too dont just leave it to ur oh to do for u as u know from the feel of ur body on contact with anything if u want to go further and would stop immediately ...
a nice soft butt plug to start and then as everyone else has said to you build it up u and ur oh both know the limits u have and relax and enjoy the experience
have fun
I have super intence orgasms whenever me and the OH have sex and use a toy. Its amazing. I come pretty much straight away.
We start out with a small butt plug like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 and work our way up to something bigger. Just remember to use plenty of lube.
If you haven't tried anal before, perhaps you should try some anal play alone first so that you can make a decision on whether or not it's for you? If your not comfortable then stop straight away. It's important that your both comfortable. Don't be pressured into anything. Good luck.
SBB x
oooh make sure you choose something small because having a willy in your bum makes your vagina very little. its hard to get dildos in both your vagina and bum so id suggest a thin vibrator for your vagina?
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15349 if that kinda thing works for you
or if hes going to be in your vagina and youre going to be using a toy for your bum, then maybe a vibrating butt plug? good because it will stay in while youre having sex.
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20752
dont be put off by anal seriously, its really really really nice. if youre turned on very much its sooo easy to get things into your bum. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2041 that feels amazing in your bum. if youre nervous about it then you play with yourself rather than your boyfriend doing it. and then when youre comfortable let him do that and then use a bullet on your clit which will help you to relax. then put fingers in your bum or let your OH, whatever you feel most comfortable with and then you'll be surprised at how easy it goes in when added with lube.
hope you have fun :D
Birkettsbabe wrote:
what toys would you suggest ?
im a newbie to it and i bought the beginners pink vibe from here and its great but DO get some lube
Birkettsbabe wrote:
Wow thanks yeah the first one will be my next purchase ,
The more i think about it the less i want to do it now
It's important to be in the right mood. My partner and I both enjoy anal (including DP either with a finger or a small toy) but we also go for long spells without doing it. When we're both in the mood we really go for it and it's fantastic.