I’ve had a bit of a search throughout the forum and I’m struggling to find much on female chastity devices other than bulky belts.
I’m an absolute obsessive of living a sub lifestyle, I love control and orgasm denial and a chastity device is actually something I’ve never tried. I guess I’d be looking for something that I can wear pretty much permanently for long periods of time to prevent me from ‘misbehaving’ when I’m alone.
The whole point of the device would be that there was no way I could remove it without his consent or when I’m alone but I’m sure you can imagine that could pose a few daily problems - washing and the loo etc. It would also have to be comfortable enough to wear for daily life.
I wondered if there are any products or devices that could completely prevent any form of self clit stimulation and internal playing?
I guess the ideal perfection would be a piercing of my clit hood and both my labia, a cute little padlock to link them all…
Has or does anyone else partake in this kind of kink, I know a lot of guys like this and I know there’s a lot of chastity cock cages for dicks but I can’t really find all that much for clits other than large bulky belts that look a little like they belong in the Tower Of London Museum
I’ve looked for stuff before, as I’d like to try it a bit. The only thing I found was something that strapped around the thighs and waist to hold something in place over the front area, but the reviews said it was easy to get off. I think that’s the point of the bulk - stopping it coming off.
In addition, I’d like something to keep both holes filled whilst stopping anything touching my clit. I think that would be edging without actually trying!
I might do some more searching over the weekend, as I haven’t looked for a while. I have got one of those metal ass plugs where the petals open out in the ass on a screw mechanism and you can padlock it open, and that’s mentally very erotic.
Thanks @KinkyMira, I had a feeling you’d know a little about this
Wow, that plug sounds sensational! That’s something I’d definitely like to try.
Yeah I need something that I simply cannot take off at all unless I’m given a key and it has to stop me from any kind of touching my clit really. I’ve seen a lot of chain style g-strings but I’ll be honest, I’d just start rubbing those between my lips and cum in minutes I’m sure
I know the option to use a wand vibrator over the top of a chastity device would still likely bring me to orgasm but that’s easily solved by locking all my toys away in a box. Well, I mean a spare bedroom.
I’d even settle for something just for weekends and my husband can allow me to remove it for a minute or two at a time if I need the loo etc but then straight back on. This wouldn’t work well for work but if I was to have a couple of weeks off work I think it could be an extremely fun and mentally frustrating couple of weeks - the reward would be divine I’m sure
I’ve no experience of this but I would think most belts would have an around the waist belt which may be difficult to conceal . I think even steel fronted ones would still be difficult to stop you having access due to the female anatomy. I would imagine leather would even allow some movement for self stimulation. Sorry I’m not much help but will watch this thread with interest
I think you’re right @steevo68, from what I can find there doesn’t seem to be much available that would completely prevent any self stimulation. There’s plenty of devices and cages for cocks and I’m sure they work sensationally but there’s not a load available for clits
I’ve seen pictures of medieval metal chastity belts and they have a hole for peeing, but as they’re iron they look very uncomfortable and unhygienic. Can’t really think of how they could make one for females that ticked all the boxes of hygiene, allowing use of the toilet, comfort and prevention of access to the clit.
I think the problem with long term female chastity devices is hygiene. It’s going to be very difficult to design an item which allows access for washing without allowing access for anything else. Most of the female chastity devices I’ve see are obviously designed for short term play.
I think you’re right @WillC and @rockstar. I guess in real life it’s not always possible or practical (or safe) to achieve the perfect dream one has in their head Curse myself for my weird and wonderful - yet often unobtainable - kinks.
I honestly believe it will be a case of he has to come into the bathroom with me or atleast only allow me a certain amount of time after he’s removed it to let me go to the loo and then it goes straight back on.
The design key for me is something in front of the clit but not able to be pushed back to touch it. I think that’s where metal comes in. In my mind, I’ve got one of those hoops with pegs to keep my pussy all spread (and therefore lips away from my clit) with something metal over the top. Not seen one in real life though, although I have got a peggy hoop for display purposes.
We are also going to keep an eye on this thread.
We have a few of the belts and your right, very bulky, hard to conceal, they are not so comfy.
I’ve seen the piercing and cover you talk about but thats out the question for us, not being a fan of needles.
The self control thing seems to be the last option… rather than cover that area, restrict your hands? Lock the toys up and wear boxing gloves ^^
I always thought girls have a much better toy range but not in this department, yet it seems
I’m thinking something similar to this, it looks perhaps a little comfier than this one that Lovehoney sell. It looks a lot prettier, a lot more comfortable and substantially harder to remove. I really like the look of it and I love steel too
I see there is a small slit along the front for I guess peeing, but I’d have to make sure all bullet vibrators are locked away as I bet I’d get the tip of one up in there Atleast that steel insertable part would stop me putting other things up inside myself.
I’m thinking hygiene wouldn’t be too much of an issue with this type either, I can ask
for it to be removed for a brief period of time for a very short bathroom break and then straight back on, I could even wear it in the shower too maybe or have him keep a careful eye on me in the shower once he’s removed it.
@zombifiedguy ooooo I’ve never heard of a clit shield but it sounds extremely enticing
The form fitting aspect will be a real deal breaker for me, I mean it has to be extremely well fitting to prevent me from sneaking a finger hear and there
I love steel, it really gets me going, that and the hygiene aspect of it means there’s no way I’ll choose a leather style option.
I think the one I mentioned in the Pander To Me Products category may be rubber covered steel cable.
I believe the clit shield is a piercing style device but havent looked into it much myself. Definitely find something that ticks as many of the boxes as possible.
Maybe see if there are makers who can modify a design to help solve certain niggles
I’ll take a look at this now, I’m hoping to have my clit hood piercing done soon, I really need to get that booked again Thanks so much for your help @zombifiedguy
Atleast that steel insertable part would stop me putting other things up inside myself.
