OK...partner got this out on love film finally.. And we settled down to watch it last night.
My reaction is..yes there were some steamy scenes...and you got to see Christian going all out..but I never got the satisfied it was an 18 ..full on Dom/_sub no holds bared feeling.
I felt it was in all honesty a bit of a let down😞
I felt wanting far more than it gave...and blow me! It leaves on a cliff hanger!
I do hope the second film goes in for far more content, as I felt it could have been far more steamy than it came over.
I still enjoyed it..and yes...my partner and I were quite turnedvon afterwards.. And had a great session of our own!
It did however get my somewhat shy partner to open up and talk about some of the scenes/ positions.. And what we felt about it.
He isn't really a natural dominant... But he did voice an interest in trying it out...
I would love for him to have a go.. As I found that side of my last relationship with my fb really quite intoxicating!
At least I have a few toys that we can start of with experimenting with..now the ice on that subject has been well and trurly broken.
Even got onto the subject of porn that we have watched in the past and what category we liked more..
So yes it was a positive experience watching it...I could have just done with a bit more
Fffwwwwrrrrr!!!😝😝😝😄
I was honestly bored watching it. I went with girlfriends to see in teater first time and was laughing at their reactions more than anything. I watched it again with OH and it was just so so... to me the books were better because I prefer to visualize on my own.
I don't know if I'll watch it in all honesty. It seems like it's very hyped
I'm glad that it got you and your partner talking about new things! Hope you two have fun trying and testing x
Switched it off yawn!
Tbh I felt this was the best thing about it...he is quite shy about his likes/ dislikes...and he is not a very vocal lover.. So havibg a conversation where he would like to try out being a bit more of a dominant was quite nice to hear. Tbh...I have been used to be with far more naturally dominant partners in the past..and I do love the sensitive less dominant lover I have now...but taking it up a passionate notch would be quite a thing to do. I think he has it in him...as I think he will find it quite liberating.... ATM..I am certainly finding I am taking quite an active role( far more than in the past)... And taking a bdsm twist will be a fun element to try out properlyNatandTom wrote:
I'm glad that it got you and your partner talking about new things! Hope you two have fun trying and testing x
To encourage him Naughty mum, you could try getting yourself a collar and or leash, and maybe a body harness type thing, if you don't think it will scare him off. I got the Dominix Open-Breast leather harness recently, and it looks stunning. My OH is also not always very vocal about things in the bedroom, but he did appreciate my offering myself as his 'sex slave'!
Hmmm.I already have collar and lead...handcuffs...hogtie..whip...paddle...blindfold....I have the makings of some very naughty fun😀😝
The other thing he mentioned in our sexual opening up after this film was he did watch porn and did do live feed sites when he was with his ex...as he was getting nothing out of her at all( not his issue now I might add!!😘😘😋)
The category he tended to use more was strip tease...
Given I have already proven my sexting prowess with my fb before I met my current partner... I could put that to good use....if he has a leaning to watch sexy images...I have several outfits that could accommodate that😄